Sunday, March 29, 2009

Punjabiz - on both sides of the border

Recently came across this article by Vir Sanghvi. ( http://www.hindustantimes.com/StoryPage/StoryPage.aspx?sectionName=ViewsSectionPage&id=4e661b6b-ca91-43f6-8153-e927ad151c76&Headline=The+same+people%3f+Surely+not )

My two cents about this article are...

I felt this article was written by someone who does not have any close pakistani friends and I thought Vir Sanghvi is a learned man.

I dont think there is much difference between Indians and pakistanis and i am not talking about Punjabiz from both sides yet.

Innocent lives have been lost on both sides of the border in the last few years. It is unfair to name call the other country because terrorists have no name. It is absolutely irrational to say all the pakistanis have changed in the last 60 years when they are also fighting the same enemy as we are, everyday ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_terrorist_incidents_in_Pakistan ) . So how different is the last link from this link ( http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chronology_of_major_terrorist_incidents_in_India ).

If you talk with any Pakistani they will be glad to tell you how much they love Bollywood. Their love for Shahrukh, Amitabh, Aamir, Madhuri, Kajol, Rani, Salman, Dharmendra is not based on religion, but based on same preferences as those of indians. Dont be surprised by the fact that they love Mohammad Rafi as much as they love Mukesh and Lata. They marvel at the genius of Sachin as much as they appreciate the skill of Wasim. In the article the opinion of a politician, Imran Khan, cannot be considered as a general opinion of the masses. If that is the case then we sure have our share of Togadia, Modi, Thackeray, Tytler and Rahul Gandhis.
As far as my history knowledge is concerned pakistan came into existence as a Muslim state and all the Muslims of Punjab left for Pakistan and all the Sikhs, Hindus moved to Punjab, India. So to expect a Hindu or Sikh to be successful in a Muslim state is a far fetched thought.

Vir Sanghvi mentioned that with the advancement in technology the North South divide has bridged. Well I think as they say, "what you dont know doesnt hurt you"; with the advacements in technology and increased interaction with the South Indians I have realised how different we are though we live in the same country. Apart from having the same central government and same central rules there is nothing that is similar. Let me try to list the dissimilarities.
We dont eat the same kind of food. We dont listen to the same music. We dont speak the same language. We dont worship the same Gods. We dont have the same political parties. We dont even follow the same movie stars. We dont behave in public in similar manner Apart from every other conceivable difference in mentality.

And for Pakistani punjabiz I can say that, it is heartening to see that they love Jagjit Singh as much as we love Ghulam Ali. Punjabis all across the world think Nusrat is one of the greatest singer ever. Punjabis from both sides have this desire to visit Lahore and Amritsar everytime they go to Wagah Border. Punjabi boys think that girls on the other side of the border are prettier. We share the same jokes, same food, same language, same dress sense, same values.

I think 60 years is too less of a time to divide people with a boundary line.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sunday, November 16, 2008

1-2-3 testing okay!

Blogging from iPhone, wondering how effective it is. A lot has happened since the last time I blogged.
Survived 1st year of MBA.
Visited Beijing.
Interned with AT&T in Texas.
Travelled around US.
Etc....

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Wednesday, March 12, 2008

KPS Gill - Thank you


Dear Mausam,

I want to thank Mr Kanwar Pal Singh Gill for completely destroying the game of hockey in india. The whole of nation is indebted of his able leadership. He has helped India achieve the impossible. First time in the history of Olympics, India's hockey team has not qualified. I am sure it must have been very difficult for him to ridicule, ill treat and abuse players of the caliber of Dhanraj Pillay, Ashish Ballal etc. to achieve his objective.
But you what, I am not really surprised. I had this confidence in him since the time he took over the reigns of the Indian Hockey League. After all I am fully aware of his antics during the time he were Supercop of Punjab ( link ).
I hope he will now finally relinquish his post and decide against sticking till 2010.
The positive is that with his latest adventure he has just dishonored the country in a sport called hockey, instead of killing innocent people.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Saturday, February 16, 2008

Fleischhauer Rentals in West Lafayette

Mausam Kaur,

Looking for a place to stay in a city where you know no one, is a pretty daunting task. There are a lot of pros and cons of one apartment building compared to the other. This is the summary of my experience with a rental company called Fleischhauer rentals.
Reading the reviews of various rental places on various websites was not of much help ,as nobody had a good opinion about any of the rental places around West Lafayette and coming from a big city I expected things to be a lot better than what was on offer.
Students in 2nd year in my program had carried out a survey about rental places in West Lafayette and distributed the results of the survey to all the incoming students. In that survey somebody had written "Fleischhauer is good" . I foolishly took that 3 word review to heart and reached straight for the Fleischhauer rental's office.
My first impression wasn't too bad. They were pretty professional in showing me the various apartments and within one hour I decided a place and gave them a deposit. The agony began the day I moved in. There was a really foul smell in the apartment and there was a bed which was the dirtiest thing that I had ever seen in my life and I thought maybe the smell was because of the bed. I pushed the bed outside of the house and into the garbage bin, which, for some reason, was placed 10 feet away from the entrance and was right outside one of the windows of my first floor apartment.
I complained at Fleischhauer's office about the smell and they said they will look into it, around the same time my school started and I got busy with classes. I largely ignored the smell and within 15 days after spraying about two bottles of room freshener the smell had gone. I was so occupied by smell and school work that I completely ignored the state of the refrigerator that I was given. The refrigerator was not keeping the food as cold as it should, I tried lowering the temperature but that seemed not to make any difference. I thought maybe I am so dumb that maybe I do not know how to operate a refrigerator and asked a friend of mine to examine it just to make sure that I was not missing something really stupid. As it turns out I and my friend concluded that the refrigerator is missing the defrost mechanism. Well I was surprised that how come to this day in US there are refrigerators installed in houses which do not have a defrost! I grew up in a third world country and we always had a refrigerator which either had a auto defrost or a switch which could be pressed for defrost.
I went to the Fleischhauer rentals office and asked about it and they said they will look into it. At this stage I was already 1 month into the program. A few repeated requests fell on deaf years and their attitude was a far cry from their attitude when I initially met them. Employees at Fleischhauer rental suggested I plug out the power cable of the refrigerator every time I want to defrost it and wait for the ice to melt. I have tried to see the manager and they have written my complaint about 4 times and have repeatedly promised that someone will contact me to talk about it, to this day I am still awaiting someone other than the receptionist to offer me some kind of explanation. I have thrown milk cans, juice bottles and various other food items which I had bought from Walmart after barely using them because they spoil so often in the refrigerator.
One fine day the microwave oven also stopped working. As if the course work at school wasn't enough this new problem destroyed whatever semblance of sense I had. I went to the office and lost it. With immense frustration and desperation I had no idea how I should behave with them. I asked them to fix my refrigerator, microwave and remove the garbage from in front of the house. They told me that the garbage cannot be removed as the location was decided by the municipal govt. and they promised to send someone to fix the refrigerator and microwave.
The mechanic came the next day and replaced the microwave, but said he cannot replace the refrigerator as there is nothing wrong with it! He said if I wanted to get rid of the ice then I need to plug it out and let it melt.
Employees of Fleischhauer rentals enter your house during anytime of the day to show your apartment to potential tenants without any prior notice. Last month they sent out notice that all the tenants will be charged a fine if dog's shit continues to lie outside in the common area. Consider the abnormality, I will have to pay because some stranger gets his dog to shit on public property which happens to be about 20 feet away from my house. I have tried getting in touch with certain William Fleischhauer who is the owner of the place but all I can find is the email address which is checked by the receptionist and the phone number which is again attended by the receptionist.
The irony is such that because of lack of options and time, I may end up renewing my lease with these money sucking, cold hearted illogical people. I hope I find some other decent place.
An advise to all new students @ Purdue. Avoid Fleischhauer rentals at all costs.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Wednesday, February 13, 2008

Obama mania is for real

Mausam Kaur Satshriakaal,

Barack Obama has now won 8 states in a row. 23 states out of 34. That is a phenomenal achievement for someone who is up against the Clintons. Such has been the effect of Barack Obama that he has made Bill Clinton look like just another power hungry politician. Bill Clinton lost a lot of credibility by terming Obama's campaign as a "fairytale" and comparing Obama's success with the success of another black candidate Jesse Jackson who unsuccessfully ran for president few decades ago.
I was introduced to Barack Obama in 2004 when he was campaigning for John Kerry. What caught my attention was that how a relatively unknown senator, who instead of campaigning for his senate seat in Illinois, was instead actively campaigning for Kerry all over the US, that was some confidence. I youtubed Barack Obama and found the speech he delivered at the Democratic National Convention that year, a speech- to this day is considered as the best speech that someone ever delivered, a truly inspiring account of his own life and his vision of America(See it here). I don't know how much he helped John Kerry but that speech was very much instrumental in helping Barack Obama reach where he is now.
I think Bill Clinton was not completely wrong when he termed Barack Obama's campaign as fairytale, it is a fairytale which has captured the imagination of all the people who have heard about it and want it to carry on. Barack's campaign and his speeches are like all "..and they lived happily ever after" movies, in which you really feel bad that they ended, you want them to go on and on and on.
A few years ago, when the idea that Barack Obama might run for presidency was still an imagination I again youtubed for Obama's videos (damn, this youtube and wikipedia are fast replacing google) And I found a video which was called "Celebrities for Barack Obama", Robert de Niro , Matt Damon, Oprah Winfrey and Halle Berry spoke about their preference of Barack Obama over Hillary Clinton. In the same video (See here) George Clooney very effectively described as to what effect Barack's presence has over other politicians and that was mesmerizing.
I think what Obama has done is that he has inspired people in a way that I have never seen before. A very good music video by Black Eyed Peas lead singer has helped carry on the Barack momentum further(See it here). With his rather holy rhetoric he has set the expectations sky high for all the people who support him. He has shown himself to be not a politician, but a leader and that is a risky strategy.
It is fascinating to know that Barack after graduating from Harvard Law School, where he was the President of Harvard Law Review and when the world was his oyster, instead of finding a high profile, high paying job in say Washington or New York, he went back to Chicago and continued his work as community organizer and helping the poor fight for their rights. It takes a lot of guts to do something like that. Ask yourself to stop doing whatever you are doing right now and go ahead and work for the poor and get your hands dirty at the time when you think that yes finally this is the time for you to make money! I respect Barack just for this action.
Over the summer the republicans and democrats debated extensively about policies and positions. I agreed the most with Ron Paul in those information sessions. Ron Paul always called a spade a spade, and that is exactly why he did so poorly in elections. To become a President you have to be a politician (well India is an exception, where Presidents and Prime Ministers get nominated based on caste, color, religion, profession, region, weather, cricket, mood, Pakistan etc) Ron Paul always said what was truly right or wrong and that kind of statements do not make for a good politician. I am surprised Ron Paul has been elected on a republican ticket for last 10 times! In comparison though Barack's policy is not as correct as it should be but I strongly believe that he has a down to earth and logical head. Barack will use common sense all the time and will listen to the advise of the experts in every decision that he takes.(Thanks to Mr Bush, using common sense is also one of the most important criteria these days)
I am sure Bill and Hillary will rise up again and will use all their might to win in Ohio and Texas.
I hope Barack continues his winning streak and goes all the way to win the elections in November. But with Barack Obama you either support him enthusiastically or you do not support him at all. I hope Ohio and Texas help Obama win the nomination. Lets pray for Barack's success, he is the first politician whom I respect.

Mr Obama please don't become just another politician, I for the first time donated money for a political campaign, please don't disappoint us.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Thursday, January 17, 2008

America - A mecca for Corporate greed

Mausam,

I just came across an article here where it is mentioned that Time Warner intends to introduce a method where your monthly bill for internet services would be based on your usage. NBC also mentioned that the likes of Verizon, Comcast etc also intend to implement the same. Considering that I am one of those who have replaced television with internet as a source of entertainment, news etc it is not surprising that I am disappointed with this development.
The more I think about it, the more it boggles me that how in the world's most advanced country all the citizens are at a mercy of a few Corporate power houses. These internet service providers figured out that they can increase their profitability by charging heavy users while not changing the price charged from others. If they would have suggested that the price charged from everybody else would be lowered then that would have made sense but they will never do that as that would result in loss of considerable revenue!
If all of a sudden these companies have woken up to the fact that some users have been using bulk of the bandwidth and need to pay for that then why haven't they realized the same logic for the cellphone users. Why don't they introduce usage based billing for cellphone users and punish the people who have been clogging the airwaves and reducing the charges imposed on less frequent users, why am I forced to pay for the minutes that I have not used!
Why is the public transport system in US worse than India's?
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, December 21, 2007

Remember '84?

Mausam satshriakaal,

Some time back Kenny sent me this link. According to which Amitabh Bachchan is accused of inciting the hindus to kill sikhs during the 1984 riots. According to the link All India Sikh Student Federation (AISSF) has come out with a documentary where they have claimed Big B's involvement in the massacre.
I am appalled by this new "revelation". After my initial shock I came to the conclusion that this is done more to garner eyeballs than anything else. I mean why in the world will Amitabh Bachchan do something like that. People are just trying to take advantage of AB's popularity and just trying to link his closeness to Gandhi family .
It is clear that Amitabh never liked the kind of politics that Gandhis played that is the reason back in the 80's he resigned from Lok Sabha even before he crossed the half way stage of his term!
It is sad that AISSF is resorting to such kind of gimmicks. AISSF which has a long history of helping the humanity right from pre independence days has lost itz way after the tumultuous years of terror in 80s. Instead of concentrating on people like Sajjan Kumar and Jagdish Tytler, the people whose involvement is an open secret AISSF is bringing in a new angle which does not make any sense at all!!!
After 23 long years the witnesses are finally coming out on camera and speaking out what they could not do over the past 2 decades out of fear of their lives. CNN-IBN has been at the forefront of this investigation and has been giving sleepless nights to atleast Mr Jagdish Tytler. I hope this link works as it traces back the history of the 84 riots case in about 4 videos.
I am sure Tytler must be cursing his stars as to how he has become the only visible culprit. There were 3000 official deaths which the Congress govt confessed to but the real number of Sikh deaths was way more than that. It is illogical to imagine Jagdish Tytler and Sajjan Kumar to be the only people who masterminded the whole massacre. But as luck would have it, Mr Tytler has become the token symbol of terror.
Though during the time of 84 riots I was too young to realize the gravity of the situation but now when I look back and discuss this with others I think that terrible incident completely changed the dynamics of Punjab. Youth was disillusioned by the system and wanted to fight back against the injustice thereby becoming extremists. Some of those affected who did not took the violent route decided to leave Punjab for good, resulting in migration of punjabi youth to places like Europe, UK Canada and US. Since that time the voice of a separate sikh state became shriller and Punjabi youth stopped joining the Indian army. Had Indira Gandhi not ordered the military to enter the premises of Golden Temple (Darbaar Saahib) the fate of so many people in North India would have been so different.
Though I do not recall the events of '84 but the subsequent years of terrorism are etched in my mind.(Btw the movie Maachis was a very apt description of Punjab's terrorism days) I do not think that justice delayed is justice denied. I am sure the families of the victims will agree with me on this.

If this case reaches it rightful conclusion I believe that will have a warning for Mr Modi to save his skin for the massacre he orchestrated in Gujrat.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Tuesday, December 18, 2007

Waheguru - gun gava nit tere

video

I am finally done with my exams. Done with two modules of business School. I do not want to start the sob story of how gruelling the last 6 months have been. So on a day when I had nothing better to do I decided to compile a few pictures and make a video out of it. I have been hooked on to the Kirtan by Bhai Harjinder Singh ji since a couple of days now. 3 Kirtan songs have been running on a loop. (one of the three song is in this clip)
I have been pretty stressed out since so quite some time now: Exams, assignments, routine studies etc. have been more than what I have ever been used to. Working was so much fun.
For some reason I have not listened to my voice mails in over a week now. Don't feel like traveling anywhere. Mood swings like always. I hope I get to normal ways sooner than later and I also hope to blog more regularly in the next few days.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, November 23, 2007

"Unwanted Attention" goes public again

Ladies & Gentleman,

This is to bring to your notice that the dreary blog "Unwanted Attention" makes a comeback after a hiatus of about 4 months. The reason for the sudden exit and comeback are still unknown. As per the author "i just felt like it". In case you been wasting your time on this blog in the past then good news for you as you will get that opportunity again.

An update as to what has transpired in the author's life in the last 4 months:

Ajj Kaim has moved to a God forsaken place in the middle of a state called Indiana, a state which is recognized by it's proximity to a city called Chicago than anything else!
But Ajj Kaim likes the new place because he is a proud student of a university called Purdue University [wink & smug]
Though Ajj Kaim is back in school but his life has almost non-existent adventure quotient which is so unlike a student's life in school. All his time is consumed in books, more so because he has always been a slow learner. Ajj Kaim has been trying hard to grasp the various "interesting subjects" that he is studying, this struggle has already taken a toll on him as he is having a tough time following some of his other interests like....talking with friends, meeting new people, checking new websites, Bhangra, watching youtube videos,wasting time online and.....what else....oh yes...looking for an internship.
Ajj Kaim was in his elements only in the first two months of his stay in the new place now he has gone in his cocoon and is circumspect about devoting appropriate time to studies.
Ajj Kaim has been surprised by the number of students from india @ Purdue. Specially on US national holidays and on sunday evenings Ajj Kaim is amazed by the number of indians on campus as on these occasions indians outnumber the Americans.
Ajj Kaim has also been playing b'ball very regularly and considers playing b'ball the only thing he looks forward to every week. Ajj Kaim is still waiting for the day when he will be able to read the Microeconomics book at leisure (The subject was taught to him in the first module but he got terrible grades in the exam).
Ajj Kaim considers himself a terrible test taker and blames most of his disappointing grades to this.
Like all other places that he has been a habitat of, even at Purdue, Ajj Kaim is surrounded by a bunch of wonderful people whom he calls friends. Ajj Kaim still isn't sure if the MBA experience has changed him even one-bit.
Ajj Kaim hopes to write regularly from now on.
Regards,
Spokesperson for Ajj Kaim

Sunday, October 14, 2007

aeMm Bee Aay

Itz been almost 3 months since i last posted something here.

3 crazy months later I am back, I don't know for how long...

I am very much in the thick of things of my MBA education. It has been an exhilarating, adventurous, tiring, frustrating, overwhelming, fulfilling experience so far and I am just 3 months into the program so far.
For someone who thought that 9 hours of sleep is a pre-requisite every night, things have really turned around a wee bit. Short naps at odd hours have been a regular phenomenon. I hope I get into some kind of a routine in the coming weeks.
In a class of 210 people I think by now I know about 80-100 people by name, I know itz not impressive at all but I think i have been a little too lazy and in my defense, I have been crazy busy all these days and also I don't go to bars to socialize so how in the world am i supposed to meet people! (I know itz a lame excuse.)

Things I love @ Purdue

Economics classes: Our professor is excellent, he makes every class so exciting. Itz a privilege to attend his lectures.

People: I love the people I hangout with. Like always in life, I have been lucky again to meet so many nice individuals and they are a reason enough to make this education a memorable experience.

Skill set: I love the idea of learning lot of new things everyday, be it something as rigorous as solving a quant problem or as mundane as knowing what match-sticks or match-boxes are called in US, every day has something new to offer.

Desism all around: There is no way that I can feel home sick @ purdue as the number of desis is over the top, there is no way I can crib for desi food as the options are aplenty.

Room-Department distance: I love the fact that my place is 5 minutes walking distance away from the department. It is so convenient in summers, I am sure I will love it even more in the next few months when snow would be the order of the day. No parking hassles and no waiting for the bus.

Co-Rec: This is the recreational facility at Purdue and without this my purdue experience would have been boring. This place is a stress buster. Multiple basketball courts ensure that no matter how busy the day/evening is, we always get to play.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, July 14, 2007

What is the most important thing in life?

Hey Mausam,

What is the most important thing in life?


Happiness? Success? Health? Family & friends? Peace? Freedom?

Maybe all of these. I think its like when you get hurt on your finger you say to God, "Oh Lord why did you injure me on my finger, I can be relatively comfortable if I am injured anywhere else other than my finger!".

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Tuesday, July 10, 2007

Not good

I am tired, I am stressed out, I am feeling sick.

I don't like people invading my privacy, I don't want people to poke their nose into anything and everything but perhaps,like always, its my fault. Why do I not set limits for people, Why do i have a "chalta hai" attitude towards everything?

I need to work hard, I need to become selfish, I need to rise high.

Ajj Kaim

Sunday, July 01, 2007

Life is fine

Mausam,

This poem is by Langston Hughes.
Dhiraj got this poem recorded for one of our application @ work and introduced me to this poem.
I also have a beautiful version of this poem recorded by a very fine recording artist in case you want it.


I went down to the river,
I set down on the bank.
I tried to think but couldn't,
So I jumped in and sank.

I came up once and hollered!
I came up twice and cried!
If that water hadn't a-been so cold
I might've sunk and died.

But it was Cold in that water! It was cold!

I took the elevator
Sixteen floors above the ground.
I thought about my baby
And thought I would jump down.

I stood there and I hollered!
I stood there and I cried!
If it hadn't a-been so high
I might've jumped and died.

But it was High up there! It was high!

So since I'm still here livin',
I guess I will live on.
I could've died for love--
But for livin' I was born

Though you may hear me holler,
And you may see me cry--
I'll be dogged, sweet baby,
If you gonna see me die.

Life is fine! Fine as wine! Life is fine!

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, June 30, 2007

A period of transition is on

Satshriakaal Mausam,

For some reason the last few days have been an exercise in self reflection and the thought process is still going on; I am on a journey of finding myself. I think when I get involved in day to day activities I tend to get out of touch with myself, I suddenly forget the person I am! and it takes some time for me to remind myself of what my beliefs are and what do I stand for. This latest feeling of self introspection has been triggered by my interaction with a very good friend of my bro. Now I am re-analyzing my public behavior, my thought process and my social responses.
Things which were a taboo when I was 18 became normal when i turned 21, the actions which were a strict no-no became a routine by the time i turned 25 and now I think the next wave of change is happening. I would like to believe that this change has always been positive but only time will tell. I know I still have to work on a lot of things; The stubbornness is still rock solid, I still get too attached with people, I still keep my wounds of the past open.
Off late I have thought a lot about the crazy time that I had between the age of 19 and 23. I have debated with myself a lot about how risky that environment was. I try to convince myself that those experiences were extremely valuable and the learnings of those experiences have been priceless but then I am thoughtless when I think that "would I want let my dear ones go through the same risky experience though I know it was so much valuable for me". I don't know if I will ever find the answer to this question.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Winamp plays: mann vich vasdey..sajna ve rehney akhiyaan tton dooor..tu ki jaaney sajna veh... mai ithe kinni majboor...

Tuesday, June 26, 2007

iSleep

Mausam Good Evening,

With temperatures hovering in the vicinity of 90 degrees, the summers are finally here. Most of the people in this part of the world head to the beach as soon as they find the mercury has risen. But I decided to stick to my old way of enjoying the summer, atleast for today.

What better way to enjoy a hot summer day than an afternoon siesta (Why does it always happen that whenever I think of sleep i am reminded of Birdi and his never ending sleeping sessions, he used to put Kumbhkaran to shame). I so much miss those memorable summer afternoons in Chandigarh. Be it the wonderful hot summer days spent in sector 37, or innumerable afternoons spent @ Narry's place in sector 36, or the unforgettable afternoons lived in Punjab University, all those days were magical. Now that I am thinking, I don't recall any unpleasant incident that happened on summer afternoons in Chandigarh!

Those were special times and I will cherish them forever.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sabar Koti sings:
1. Tara Ambraan te koi koi eh...
2. O'Mausam vango badal gaye ji assi rukhaan vangu kharrey rahe...
3. Hanju'aan de vich gham paakey peena sikh leya...

Wednesday, June 20, 2007

I feel so bollywoodish today!

Mausam Kaur jindaabad...

Why do I remember the festival of color - Holi, every time I put Turmeric Powder (Yellow), Garam Masala Powder(Brown), Chili Powder(Red) and Common Salt(White) in any of the vegetables I make ? ....why at that precise moment I remember the colors shown in countless bollywood movies? (the recent one being Jhoom Barabar Jhoom). How come Bollywood is so spicy and colorful and hollywood is so mild and colorless? Why do I love the typical Bollywood sing-&-dance routine more and more with each passing day? How come I now love the dance moves of Govinda and Salman Khan more than ever?
I think now I have started watching the bollywood movies not for the story or to enjoy the cinematic excellence but I have started watching the desi movies as a celebration of our culture. A movie like Jhoom Barabar Jhoom which was devoid of any story or screenplay turned out to be quite entertaining for me coz I focused on the songs, the dances, the colorful dresses and the bright lights.
The years of nurturing on a diet of typical bollywood fare has seeped in my blood and no amount of hollywood tonic can change that now i guess. My expectation from a hollywood movie remains the same- To watch a great story enacted by excellent actors, well supported by director and other technicians but for Bollywood movies, story has become a luxury. I think I primarily watch hindi cinema for the atmosphere; if the film turns out to be as good as Munnabhai series or Rang de Basanti then that is a reason enough for repeat viewing.
The Leonardo Caprios, the Ben Afflecks of Hollywood will never be celebrities for me but I will go to great lengths to see the Deols, the Bachchans, the Khans, the Kapoors from Bollywood.

God, I feel so bollywoodish today!

Anyways, I am the head cook in the houshold now. My bro gets to taste all the spicy dishes that I cook and oh Boy does he hate the job! well the poor guy has no other choice. Anyways I love all that I cook so I think I can live with it, but I hate ironing the clothes. ( Mom why in the world you never taught me how to do that!) . I guess I will have to learn the most boring job in the world if I have to survive @ Purdue. Time to sign off now :-)

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Winamp playing :
Bol na Halke-halke from Jhoom Barabar Jhoom
Jhoom from Jhoom Barabar Jhoom
Kabira by Agnee

Friday, June 08, 2007

Bill Gates spoke at Harvard

Hey Mausam,
How you doing today? Mausam have you heard the keynote address delivered by Steve Jobs @ the commencement ceremony of Stanford University. It was a truly inspirational speech and you can view it here.
Bill Gates was the speaker @ Harvard yesterday for commencement, he was given an honorary degree and he also delivered an outstanding speech. I prefer not to write long posts here coz I don't want you to get bored reading long writeups but this speech is special if I edited it to make it short then the beauty of the speech would have lost.
Though this speech was addressed to the graduating class of 2007 @ Harvard but the ideas expressed here hold true for all the educated human beings of this planet. If you are good enough to read this post then you are good enough to follow the ideas shared by Bill Gates.
I request you to please read the whole of it, just once.

Bill Gates said ....
I've been waiting more than 30 years to say this: "Dad, I always told you I'd come back and get my degree."

I want to thank Harvard for this timely honour. I'll be changing my job next year ... and it will be nice to finally have a college degree on my resume.

I applaud the graduates today for taking a much more direct route to your degrees. For my part, I'm just happy that the Crimson has called me "Harvard's most successful dropout." I guess that makes me valedictorian of my own special class ... I did the best of everyone who failed.

But I also want to be recognised as the guy who got Steve Ballmer to drop out of business school. I'm a bad influence. That's why I was invited to speak at your graduation. If I had spoken at your orientation, fewer of you might be here today.

Harvard was just a phenomenal experience for me. Academic life was fascinating. I used to sit in on lots of classes I hadn't even signed up for. And dorm life was terrific. I lived up at Radcliffe, in Currier House. There were always lots of people in my dorm room late at night discussing things, because everyone knew I didn't worry about getting up in the morning. That's how I came to be the leader of the anti-social group. We clung to each other as a way of validating our rejection of all those social people.

Radcliffe was a great place to live. There were more women up there, and most of the guys were science-math types. That combination offered me the best odds, if you know what I mean. This is where I learned the sad lesson that improving your odds doesn't guarantee success.

One of my biggest memories of Harvard came in January 1975, when I made a call from Currier House to a company in Albuquerque that had begun making the world's first personal computers. I offered to sell them software.

I worried that they would realise I was just a student in a dorm and hang up on me. Instead they said: "We're not quite ready, come see us in a month," which was a good thing, because we hadn't written the software yet. From that moment, I worked day and night on this little extra credit project that marked the end of my college education and the beginning of a remarkable journey with Microsoft.

What I remember above all about Harvard was being in the midst of so much energy and intelligence. It could be exhilarating, intimidating, sometimes even discouraging, but always challenging. It was an amazing privilege - and though I left early, I was transformed by my years at Harvard, the friendships I made, and the ideas I worked on.

But taking a serious look back ... I do have one big regret.

I left Harvard with no real awareness of the awful inequities in the world - the appalling disparities of health, and wealth, and opportunity that condemn millions of people to lives of despair.

I learned a lot here at Harvard about new ideas in economics and politics. I got great exposure to the advances being made in the sciences.

But humanity's greatest advances are not in its discoveries - but in how those discoveries are applied to reduce inequity. Whether through democracy, strong public education, quality health care, or broad economic opportunity - reducing inequity is the highest human achievement.

I left campus knowing little about the millions of young people cheated out of educational opportunities here in this country. And I knew nothing about the millions of people living in unspeakable poverty and disease in developing countries.

It took me decades to find out.

You graduates came to Harvard at a different time. You know more about the world's inequities than the classes that came before. In your years here, I hope you've had a chance to think about how - in this age of accelerating technology - we can finally take on these inequities, and we can solve them.

Imagine, just for the sake of discussion, that you had a few hours a week and a few dollars a month to donate to a cause - and you wanted to spend that time and money where it would have the greatest impact in saving and improving lives. Where would you spend it?

For Melinda and for me, the challenge is the same: how can we do the most good for the greatest number with the resources we have.

During our discussions on this question, Melinda and I read an article about the millions of children who were dying every year in poor countries from diseases that we had long ago made harmless in this country. Measles, malaria, pneumonia, hepatitis B, yellow fever. One disease I had never even heard of, rotavirus, was killing half a million kids each year - none of them in the United States.

We were shocked. We had just assumed that if millions of children were dying and they could be saved, the world would make it a priority to discover and deliver the medicines to save them. But it did not. For under a dollar, there were interventions that could save lives that just weren't being delivered.

If you believe that every life has equal value, it's revolting to learn that some lives are seen as worth saving and others are not. We said to ourselves: "This can't be true. But if it is true, it deserves to be the priority of our giving."

So we began our work in the same way anyone here would begin it. We asked: "How could the world let these children die?"

The answer is simple, and harsh. The market did not reward saving the lives of these children, and governments did not subsidise it. So the children died because their mothers and their fathers had no power in the market and no voice in the system.

But you and I have both.

We can make market forces work better for the poor if we can develop a more creative capitalism - if we can stretch the reach of market forces so that more people can make a profit, or at least make a living, serving people who are suffering from the worst inequities. We also can press governments around the world to spend taxpayer money in ways that better reflect the values of the people who pay the taxes.

If we can find approaches that meet the needs of the poor in ways that generate profits for business and votes for politicians, we will have found a sustainable way to reduce inequity in the world. This task is open-ended. It can never be finished. But a conscious effort to answer this challenge will change the world.

I am optimistic that we can do this, but I talk to skeptics who claim there is no hope. They say: "Inequity has been with us since the beginning, and will be with us till the end - because people just ... don't ... care." I completely disagree.

I believe we have more caring than we know what to do with.

All of us here in this Yard, at one time or another, have seen human tragedies that broke our hearts, and yet we did nothing - not because we didn't care, but because we didn't know what to do. If we had known how to help, we would have acted.

The barrier to change is not too little caring; it is too much complexity.

To turn caring into action, we need to see a problem, see a solution, and see the impact. But complexity blocks all three steps.

Even with the advent of the Internet and 24-hour news, it is still a complex enterprise to get people to truly see the problems. When an airplane crashes, officials immediately call a press conference. They promise to investigate, determine the cause, and prevent similar crashes in the future.

But if the officials were brutally honest, they would say: "Of all the people in the world who died today from preventable causes, one half of one percent of them were on this plane. We're determined to do everything possible to solve the problem that took the lives of the one half of one percent."

The bigger problem is not the plane crash, but the millions of preventable deaths.

We don't read much about these deaths. The media covers what's new - and millions of people dying is nothing new. So it stays in the background, where it's easier to ignore. But even when we do see it or read about it, it's difficult to keep our eyes on the problem. It's hard to look at suffering if the situation is so complex that we don't know how to help. And so we look away.

If we can really see a problem, which is the first step, we come to the second step: cutting through the complexity to find a solution.

Finding solutions is essential if we want to make the most of our caring. If we have clear and proven answers anytime an organization or individual asks "How can I help?," then we can get action - and we can make sure that none of the caring in the world is wasted. But complexity makes it hard to mark a path of action for everyone who cares - and that makes it hard for their caring to matter.

Cutting through complexity to find a solution runs through four predictable stages: determine a goal, find the highest-leverage approach, discover the ideal technology for that approach, and in the meantime, make the smartest application of the technology that you already have - whether it's something sophisticated, like a drug, or something simpler, like a bed net.

The AIDS epidemic offers an example. The broad goal, of course, is to end the disease. The highest-leverage approach is prevention. The ideal technology would be a vaccine that gives lifetime immunity with a single dose. So governments, drug companies, and foundations fund vaccine research. But their work is likely to take more than a decade, so in the meantime, we have to work with what we have in hand - and the best prevention approach we have now is getting people to avoid risky behaviour.

Pursuing that goal starts the four-step cycle again. This is the pattern. The crucial thing is to never stop thinking and working - and never do what we did with malaria and tuberculosis in the 20th century - which is to surrender to complexity and quit.

The final step - after seeing the problem and finding an approach - is to measure the impact of your work and share your successes and failures so that others learn from your efforts.

You have to have the statistics, of course. You have to be able to show that a program is vaccinating millions more children. You have to be able to show a decline in the number of children dying from these diseases. This is essential not just to improve the program, but also to help draw more investment from business and government.

But if you want to inspire people to participate, you have to show more than numbers; you have to convey the human impact of the work - so people can feel what saving a life means to the families affected.

I remember going to Davos some years back and sitting on a global health panel that was discussing ways to save millions of lives. Millions! Think of the thrill of saving just one person's life - then multiply that by millions. ... Yet this was the most boring panel I've ever been on - ever. So boring even I couldn't bear it.

What made that experience especially striking was that I had just come from an event where we were introducing version 13 of some piece of software, and we had people jumping and shouting with excitement. I love getting people excited about software - but why can't we generate even more excitement for saving lives?

You can't get people excited unless you can help them see and feel the impact. And how you do that - is a complex question.

Still, I'm optimistic. Yes, inequity has been with us forever, but the new tools we have to cut through complexity have not been with us forever. They are new - they can help us make the most of our caring - and that's why the future can be different from the past.

The defining and ongoing innovations of this age - biotechnology, the computer, the Internet - give us a chance we've never had before to end extreme poverty and end death from preventable disease.

Sixty years ago, George Marshall came to this commencement and announced a plan to assist the nations of post-war Europe. He said: "I think one difficulty is that the problem is one of such enormous complexity that the very mass of facts presented to the public by press and radio make it exceedingly difficult for the man in the street to reach a clear appraisement of the situation. It is virtually impossible at this distance to grasp at all the real significance of the situation."

Thirty years after Marshall made his address, as my class graduated without me, technology was emerging that would make the world smaller, more open, more visible, less distant.

The emergence of low-cost personal computers gave rise to a powerful network that has transformed opportunities for learning and communicating.

The magical thing about this network is not just that it collapses distance and makes everyone your neighbor. It also dramatically increases the number of brilliant minds we can have working together on the same problem - and that scales up the rate of innovation to a staggering degree.

At the same time, for every person in the world who has access to this technology, five people don't. That means many creative minds are left out of this discussion -- smart people with practical intelligence and relevant experience who don't have the technology to hone their talents or contribute their ideas to the world.

We need as many people as possible to have access to this technology, because these advances are triggering a revolution in what human beings can do for one another. They are making it possible not just for national governments, but for universities, corporations, smaller organisation, and even individuals to see problems, see approaches, and measure the impact of their efforts to address the hunger, poverty, and desperation George Marshall spoke of 60 years ago.

Members of the Harvard Family: Here in the Yard is one of the great collections of intellectual talent in the world.

What for?

There is no question that the faculty, the alumni, the students, and the benefactors of Harvard have used their power to improve the lives of people here and around the world. But can we do more? Can Harvard dedicate its intellect to improving the lives of people who will never even hear its name?

Let me make a request of the deans and the professors - the intellectual leaders here at Harvard: As you hire new faculty, award tenure, review curriculum, and determine degree requirements, please ask yourselves:

Should our best minds be dedicated to solving our biggest problems?

Should Harvard encourage its faculty to take on the world's worst inequities? Should Harvard students learn about the depth of global poverty ... the prevalence of world hunger ... the scarcity of clean water ...the girls kept out of school ... the children who die from diseases we can cure?

Should the world's most privileged people learn about the lives of the world's least privileged?

These are not rhetorical questions - you will answer with your policies.

My mother, who was filled with pride the day I was admitted here - never stopped pressing me to do more for others. A few days before my wedding, she hosted a bridal event, at which she read aloud a letter about marriage that she had written to Melinda. My mother was very ill with cancer at the time, but she saw one more opportunity to deliver her message, and at the close of the letter she said: "From those to whom much is given, much is expected."

When you consider what those of us here in this Yard have been given - in talent, privilege, and opportunity - there is almost no limit to what the world has a right to expect from us.

In line with the promise of this age, I want to exhort each of the graduates here to take on an issue - a complex problem, a deep inequity, and become a specialist on it. If you make it the focus of your career, that would be phenomenal. But you don't have to do that to make an impact. For a few hours every week, you can use the growing power of the Internet to get informed, find others with the same interests, see the barriers, and find ways to cut through them.

Don't let complexity stop you. Be activists. Take on the big inequities. It will be one of the great experiences of your lives.

You graduates are coming of age in an amazing time. As you leave Harvard, you have technology that members of my class never had. You have awareness of global inequity, which we did not have. And with that awareness, you likely also have an informed conscience that will torment you if you abandon these people whose lives you could change with very little effort. You have more than we had; you must start sooner, and carry on longer.

Knowing what you know, how could you not?

And I hope you will come back here to Harvard 30 years from now and reflect on what you have done with your talent and your energy. I hope you will judge yourselves not on your professional accomplishments alone, but also on how well you have addressed the world's deepest inequities ... on how well you treated people a world away who have nothing in common with you but their humanity.

Good luck.



I will keep coming back to the this post for as long as I have this blog and measure how I am fairing as regards to the responsibilities discussed in this speech.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Thursday, June 07, 2007

Yummy

Mausamji Satshriakaal,
Motichoor de laddoo never tasted sweeter, Ludhiana special "Dhodha" never tasted any better and desi ghee de biscuits(peepey wale biscuits) found a new respect. This is what happens when you stay one year away from your place of origin. The things you miss the most are the things you have least access to. Thanks Arjun and thanks Hyoti.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Monday, May 28, 2007

Niagara Falls!


Mausam Kaur! Satshriakaal,

When was the last time I had such a good time at a tourist destination? Maybe Goa.

One word for the Niagara Falls experience?: Awesome!
Tips: Prefer touring as a part of a big group and make sure you have some live-wire in your group.
Observation: I saw more angrej in Indian tourist destinations than I saw at Niagara Falls. This place was FLOODED with Indians! When I say "flooded" then it means that more than 70% of people were Desiz! No chinese and hardly any Europeans.
I think the good thing is that Niagara Falls is in U.S. coz Americans know how to take care of their tourist places. It was very interesting to see the fair skinned white dudes playing host and a sea of brown skinned, hair oil enriched desis playing the guest! How often does that happen? :-)
Until next time,
Regards,
AjjKaim

Friday, May 25, 2007

Kenny Graduates...


Time : 6:50pm (EST)
Location : Rochester,NY
Occasion : Kenny's graduation

Dear Mausam,

Today is a special day. Kenny graduated from Rochester Institute of Technology. (and if I may mention Fmr President Bill Clinton was the guest speaker)
RIT is considered extremely reputed for technical courses in this part of the world and I think Kenny has truly come a long way.
When I was watching Kenny go up the stage to receive his degree I remembered the day a few years ago; I, Kenny and Narry were sitting @ Narry's place and were figuring out ways for Kenny to get out of the hole of re-appears as his exams were just a few days away. Probably that was the day when he had FINALLY decided that "no matter what happens I am gonna get my life back on track". Since then Itz been an interesting journey, for all 3 of us.
For Kenny that was a cruel time, he was up against a mountain of workload, had an immense pressure to succeed, and had to prove to himself and everyone else that he was as good as everyone thought he was.
Gladly Kenny did that in style, If getting admitted to RIT wasn't an accomplishment in itself then I think graduating in record time after few initial hiccups, is a task which takes some doing.
Congratulations Kenny Singh!
While i am in this upbeat mood(I hope it lasts for a while) I have been thinking of what Balraj Singh said to me some years ago (I also blogged about it here) "in life v face many problems which depress us....We shouldn't always wait for the ultimate day when v will be completely happy...coz that day will never come as then v will be immersed completely in a new set of problems...so v should try to capture little moments which make us happy......" and by the way, Balraj Baijee belated Happy Birthday and Best of Luck for your exams. May our prayers help you in achieving all the success that you richly deserve.
and Manpreet thanks for teaching me the mool mantar, coz itz comforting at the time of stress.

1 day down, 2 more to go in Rochester. Manu arrives early morning tomorrow. We will rock!

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Wednesday, May 16, 2007

Indian politics is funny

Satshriakaal Mausam,

Chandrababu Naidu, who became the poster boy of "India rising" and was fondly referred as CEO of Andhra Pradesh LOST his re-election 2 years ago. The man who made the government machinery completely transparent, brought accountability in government and left no stone unturned in bringing industry into Andhra Pradesh finds himself sitting in opposition. On the other hand, people like Mayawati, Prakash Singh Badal win the elections when the only thing they talk about is "how corrupt the other person is!" Mayawati will rule Uttar Pradesh for 5 years now and I have an inkling that religious tensions are going to become the order of the day.
Itz been 2 months since Badal's government tookover and the first religious tensions have erupted. It is said that "Sant Gurmit Ram Rahim Singh the leader of Sacha sauda sect proclaimed himself as the 10th Guru." As expected this has triggered massive protests all across north india. Understandably every Sikh is hurt by this and I am one of them.

The interesting thing to consider here is that during the Punjab elections a lot of media attention was gathered by this same religious sect. Psephologists predicted a victory for Congress in the Malwa belt coz the Dera's leader had pledged his support for the Congress government, and thatz what exactly happened. For the first time Akali's lost in the Malwa region.
So itz not just an issue about a Saint proclaiming himself to be a Sikh Guru, there is more to it. Why has the Congress leaders decided to stay mum about this issue so far???
"Hey Ms Bhattal/Mr Amarinder do you think what the so called Saint did was right?". They obviously do not want to harm their new found base in Malwa belt which supported their party when they most needed, so that explains their reluctance in taking sides. Mr Badal and his men have managed to project this incident in such a way that it has become impossible for the congress leaders to call it as Mr Badal's revenge against the Dera's Saint.
And where does that leave Sant Gurmit Ram Rahim Singh in this melee?
Well now when I look at it from a different perspective I feel so sorry for the poor chap. He seems to be a small time trickster who made it big thanks to some innovative marketing and good fortune. The Punjab elections were his crowning glory as he almost became a King maker (a heady feeling for any Punjabi). but Badal's acumen was far superior than this Self-proclaimed-Guru's craft. The only place for him to go now is....down.
Note:I am in no way saying that this Gurmit-Ram-Rahim watever guy is innocent. He is an idiot who thinks himself to be some superior soul and his practices are wrong and he needs to be punished for his deeds, but this incident is just not about him.Itz the bigger picture which needs to be looked at.
Mr Badal again has won another round by rudely crushing his opposition by using the right dose of religion and emotions. He had earlier killed two birds with one stone by inducting his young family members in the cabinet; ensuring that the critics who questioned his age will now silence coz now he had young leaders taking charge and he also managed to control his hold over the party. So now no chance of certain Tohra questioning his dynastic rule and breaking his party. (Did Tohra really die of a heart attack?)
Mr Badal now you can go about creating estates in Australia and California, you are the undisputed winner for the next 5 years.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

P.S.: When will Punjab get to see an inspirational leader like Barack Obama?

Saturday, May 12, 2007

Don't Thank back

Mausam,

When will I learn that if someone says "Thank you", then I am supposed to say "My Pleasure" or "You are Welcome"; I am not supposed to thank them back!

Ideas have dried up, I am tired of my own jokes, my lines are stale and this blog is boring.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, April 30, 2007

Jon Stewart says...

Dear Mausam,

Following is the excerpt from Bill Moyers's interview of Jon Stewart(You can watch the full interview here ). Jon Stewart is the host of Daily Show, which has become a cult here in US. It is everybody's perception that youngsters get their political viewpoint about the current political tussle from his "Daily Show". Jon Stewart finds humor from various misadventures of govt and the world around. George Bush is his favourite bunny and target of his numerous jokes.


In this particular segment of the interview, Jon Stewart explains strategy of Bush administration in explaining about the Iraq war to american public.

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JON STEWART:
You know, one of the things that I do think government counts on is that people are busy. And it's very difficult to mobilize a busy and relatively affluent country, unless it's over really crucial-- you know, foundational issues. That come sort of sort of a tipping point.

BILL MOYERS: War? War?

JON STEWART: But war that hasn't affected us here, in the way that you would imagine a five-year war would affect a country. I think that's why they're so really — here's the disconnect. It's sort of this odd and I've always had this problem with the rationality of it. That the President says, "We are in the fight for a way of life. This is the greatest battle of our generation, and of the generations to come. "And, so what I'm going to do is you know, Iraq has to be won, or our way of life ends, and our children and our children's children all suffer. So, what I'm gonna do is send 10,000 more troops to Baghdad."

So, there's a disconnect there between — you're telling me this is fight of our generation, and you're going to increase troops by 10 percent. And that's gonna do it. I'm sure what he would like to do is send 400,000 more troops there, but he can't, because he doesn't have them. And the way to get that would be to institute a draft. And the minute you do that, suddenly the country's not so damn busy anymore. And then they really fight back, and then the whole thing falls apart. So, they have a really delicate balance to walk between keeping us relatively fearful, but not so fearful that we stop what we're doing and really examine how it is that they've been waging this.


Jon Stewart you really bring about a clear prespective to a situation. Hats off to you. Keep entertaining us and enlightening us.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, April 28, 2007

Desi party in Boston

Hey Mausam,

Day before yesterday, I was on my way back from work. As I got off the train I plugged my Ipod on and started listening to the track "Dil Harey" by Atif Aslam. Something happened, i don't know if it was the song or it was some divine intervention but suddenly for that moment I felt happy; I had a spring in my step, I was playing the song at almost full volume. I was not walking my way home, I was running!
Why? I don't know. Maybe I was just happy, a la Aamir Khan in that famous " Pehla Nasha" song. (But there was nothing Pehla Nasha about my thoughts. I am only referring to his state of mind and the manner in which Aamir Khan was jumping and smiling in that video)
Anyway, it was a wonderful feeling and stayed with me for the rest of the evening.(Try listening to the "Dil Harey" song and let me know if you also feel the same way!)

Last night I decided to go for a Bhangra party at one of the local club. After my previous disastrous desi party experience in US, I was hoping that this time it turns out to be a much better. The party was organised by generationdesi.com and it was supposed to start at 10pm, but this being desi party I heard the first dhol beat only at 11:30! (Old habits die hard you know!) But once it started it was worth every penny of the 15$ ticket price! Almost all the Bhangra tracks that DJ Ashu played had a dominant hip-hop influence, but that was expected. I ain't complaining as all the tracks he played were very awesome.
The usual question of "Jatt ho ke daaru nahi peeta" was asked before the party started, but yeah, that question was answered once I started dancing. Needless to say my body aches and my throat hurts, thanks to my singing/shouting routine.
It sure was a night to remember. I hope to make most out of the 3 remaining months that I have in Boston.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

PS: I have finally learned the rules of Baseball and I watched, understood and enjoyed the Red Sox- Yankees game, but cricket still rules!

Wednesday, April 25, 2007

May 14th, mark this day!

On a chilly winter morning of January 10, 1999 at 4.30 am, seven people on Lodhi Road were hit by a car.
It took few minutes for the car to mow down these people in a stretch that is barely 50 metres long, so one can imagine how out of control the car was.
Official estimates later said the car was swinging erratically across the road at 100 kilometres per hour.
After hitting the people, the car drove away. While three men died immediately, three others died in the hospital and one survived.
At around 9 am the same day, the police called in a videographer to record the evidence they were uncovering.
The 30-minute long film is available exclusively to NDTV. The investigating officer tracked an oil leak from the site of the accident to a house, roughly a kilometre away in one of Delhi's most expensive neighbourhoods Golf Links.
The house showed the same oil traces in its driveway, where at the end of the trail was a battered 7-series BMW.
The film, along with the initial testimony of key witnesses, led the police to this conclusion: the hit and run was caused by three young drunk men.
After the accident, they raced to Sidharth Gupta's house and washed the car in a desperate attempt to destroy evidence. The three men charged with culpable homicide are:
Sidharth Gupta, son of a Delhi's financier, to whose house the BMW was brought after the accident.
Manik Kapoor, whose family is into hotel business, was in the passenger seat that night.
The alleged driver was Sanjeev Nanda, son of an international arms dealer and grandson of former Chief of Naval Staff Admiral Nanda.
While the film was being shot by the police, the three young men were arrested. As the police collected evidence, tension ran high.
The three boys later admitted to being in an accident but insisted it is not the one they were arrested for.
But those claims were hard to buy, given the cold hard facts captured by the police on film.

These included blood stains on the back tyre of the car, human flesh on the car's bonnet and wheels, blood stains on the steering wheel which will later be matched to stains on Sanjeev Nanda's shirt, a shattered license plate recovered from Lodhi Road.
This film was submitted in 2003 as evidence, and with every key witness having turned hostile, the police believe this evidence is critical.
''Prosecution has a very strong case. Video tape will play as very strong circumstantial evidence,'' said Vikas Arora, Public Prosecutor.
But lawyers for Sanjeev Nanda point out that the film was submitted a whopping four years after the accident took place and question its credibilty and its relevance.

Case collapse

The evidence should have nailed the accused but the only survivor of that incident told the court that it was not a BMW but a truck, which rammed into a waiting group at Lodhi Road.
It was this statement by the only survivor in the accident that spelt freedom for Nanda scion Sanjeev Nanda and virtually ended the prosecution's hope in the case.
But now for the first time, NDTV has spoken to key players in this case who said that money changed hands.
The statements are recorded on hidden camera and are not being shown to protect their identity, though NDTV has it as evidence.
''Eyewitnesses changed their statements under pressure. They even went to the extent of changing statement that it was truck and not a car,'' key player told NDTV.
In, fact another key player, who is still involved in case, says he was offered money. He said ''Everybody was bribed in this case.''
This is what the court seemed to think too. In 1999, the court said that what should have been an open and shut case had suddenly become weak. The court also said: ''The main witnesses are turning hostile blatantly under the influence of money.''
The only man who had not changed his statement was Sunil Kulkarni, a businessman from Mumbai who had just happened to be at the spot.
Yet, in another strange twist to the case, the prosecution dropped their own witness alleging that he had been bought over by the defence.
Again, the source told NDTV: ''I always wanted that he should speak in the court. He should have been given one chance, it would not have made any difference even if he had retracted his statement in the court because the statement he had made earlier in front of the magistrate would still stand. He wrote a letter to me saying that he wants to record his statement in the court. I informed my senior officials and gave the letter but they refused.''


Experts say Sunil Kulkarni should have been allowed to record his statement in the court in 1999. Had he retracted from his statement which was recorded in front of the magistrate, then he could have been booked for perjury.
The prosecution also slipped on other counts.
When the police tracked down the BMW, there were bloodstains on the steering wheel. Matching these to Nanda's blood would have been a major breakthrough in investigations.
And soon after his arrest, the police did take a sample from Nanda, but they only checked it for alcohol content. Now they claim it's too old to determine blood type.
''The sample which we took earlier is putrefied and cannot be used to detect his blood group,'' said Vikas Arora, Public Prosecutor.
In fact, a month ago, the court reprimanded the police for failing to collect another blood sample from Nanda. It said it would order Nanda to give one provided the prosecution admitted:
That either the Investigating officer is incompetent to use his powers under section 53 CrPC.
Or the investigating officer is afraid to lay hands upon the accused for any reasons.
Or the investigating officer is mixed with the accused persons.
But despite the court's strictures, one month later the police is yet to collect Nanda's blood sample.
What's even more surprising is that neither the court nor the police have mentioned a DNA match, which could be established even with the old blood sample.
The statements made to NDTV by people who have never spoken before, establish clearly a money trail, but is justice for sale?
All hopes are now on one key witness Sunil Kulkarni, a passerby who saw the accident. The prosecution never gave him a chance to speak. Now the court has called him on May 14 and there may still be hope ahead.
Source of Article is MSN India.
Sunil Kulkarni, you are my hero. My best wishes to you and your family. I will pray to God to give you strength.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, April 21, 2007

It happens only in InDiA!

Saw this picture in today's Hindustan Times. A traffic police crane is shown making a wrong turn on a busy street. Do the authorities have the moral right to ask citizens to do the right thing when authorities themselves break the rules whenever they get a chance???
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, April 20, 2007

Pls don't kill the sport!

Dear Mausam Kaur,

It has happened in other sports and it is happening in cricket too.
Do you remember the days of Andre Agassi & Jim Courier rivalry? Or do you remember the early days of marathon matches between Agassi and Sampras? Those were the kind of encounters that I always used to look forward to. And then Agassi's career started dwindling and Sampras started dominating. Such was Sampras's domination over world tennis that I started losing interest in tennis. It was always Sampras who used to win everything. Such was Sampras's flawless control that he seemed too clinical, too mechanical in his approach and I felt he made the game boring. The only tournament which used to revive my interest was French Open where Thomas Musters and Sergi Brugueras of the world provided the necessary entertainment.
As Agassi improved his ranking, his duels with Sampras again became the focus. Tennis slowly regained itz charm as the contests became more evenly matched. It was no longer a match between a man and machine. Tennis revived.
But this phase did'nt stay too long as Roger Federer quickly took control of world tennis and since the last 5 years he has done what sampras did in 90s.Infact Federer's reign has been even more dominant coz there seems to be a void in the quality of opposition to challenge his position. Since few years now I have stopped following the game now.
Michael Schumacher did the same to Auto Racing by winning everything under the sun and Schumi's win was usually taken for granted in almost every race. Only change in rules and his eventual retirement revived the interest in the sport for people again.
Lance Amstrong used to win Tour de France so comfortably year after year that I stopped watching it completely as the result was never in doubt.
Tragically, Australia is doing the same to world cricket with itz sheer dominance of the game since 1999. Australians have ruined so many cricket games over the past few years that itz tough to recall a game where they didnt thrash the opposition thoroughly! A flash South african chase and an exciting English ashes win were only a few instances among numerous demolarising defeats that australians handed to their oppositions. Australia is killing the world of cricket by giving opposition no chance to compete. I hope that some team stands up to this Australian dominance and help revive the joy of cricket!
While thinking about the world of tennis i remembered the days of Stephan Edberg, Ivan Lendl, Boris Becker, Goran Ivansevic, Jim Courier, Michael Stich and Patrick Rafter etc. those were the days...

Brian Lara retires tomorrow, bringing an end to an illustrating career. The highlight for me remains the unbeaten 153 he scored against Australia; Singlehandedly helping West Indies win a test match at Barbados by chasing down 308 runs in the company of Walsh!
Itz well past midnight, time to doze off.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Tuesday, April 17, 2007

My heart aches for Minal Panchal

The more I think about the massacre which happened at Virginia Tech University yesterday the more my heart aches. 32 innocent lives laid to rest by 1 madman. I have been tracking the story of Minal Panchal ever since the news broke out of she being missing. I searched through orkut and landed on her profile. There were about 350 messages in her scrapbook then and a message from her friend was " nice pic re, yeh kal ki hi hai kya ?". That seems to suggest she had clicked pictures a day before the fatal day.
I feel so sorry for the poor girl, she deserved a better life. What sin did the poor girl commit. Itz tragic that for me and for many others like me Minal Panchal became alive only after her death.
I am sure there will be debates about gun control, security at US university campuses and other measures required so that such incidents dont happen again but then in a few days something else will happen and we will completely forget about Minal.
The only lesson I can think of after this tragedy is that we need to value life a lot more, cherish each and every minute.Live life to the fullest coz nobody knowns when and how it may just end.
Ironically, a couple of days back my friend Bawa messaged me, "Value the people who have touched ur life because u'll never know when they'll walk out of ur life and never come back again..."
Alas, nobody will ever login again in Minal's orkut account and her account will become a silent reminder of her for all the people who came to know her after she was no more with us.
May her soul rest in peace and God give strength to her family and friends.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, April 07, 2007

..another weird post

Satshriakaal Mausam,
I wanna go back to india for a weird reason. You know what? I want to go to india so that I can enjoy listening to english music! Sounds weird right? But this is true. Ever since I have been in US I hav'nt enjoyed hearing any kind of english music. These days I enjoy not-so-melodious hindi bollywood music but I do'nt seem to like some of the finest english melodies. I have a new found respect for all hindi, punjabi music composers. The songs of an old Govinda movie "Hero number 1" have been on my Ipod since over two weeks now! I bet I know more about latest bollywood tracks than most of my friends in India know. Do'nt know if this is a passing fad or this is how I am now.
I was introduced today to Google Local search. Itz an amazing service where you can search about all the businesses in US over the phone,a faster quicker and a more effective way of using 411 service. The voice recognition system of the search is awesome. I tried to speak in a distinctly desi accent but it still managed to pick-up whatever I said ( probably some desi engineer must have worked on this application). Itz amazing the kind of innovations Google is bringing about.
I am really looking forward to reading this post of mine some years down the line and then compare how things would have turned out then.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, April 06, 2007

Lyrics- Bor Bor hon Jhanjhraan...

Hey Mausam, Below are the lyrics of the song "Bor Bor hon jhanjhraan", by Late Surjit Bindrakhia.
send me your email address and i can forward you the song in case you want it!

Aaja soniyeh ni hun chadd de majjaaj.....
brrrrruahhhh.....
hooo oh hooo oh hooo hoooo....
aaja soniyeh ni hun chadd de majaaj....giddhe vich maari tere haani ne awaaaj
aaja soniyeh ni hun chadd de majaaj....giddhe vich maari tere haani ne awaaaaaj

sunn kurriye ni giddhe vich dhol vajdaaaa...sunn kurriye ni giddhe vich dhol vajdaa...hunn sangney da chadd de khayaaal....bor bor hon jhanjhraaaaan
ni bor bor hon jhanjhraaaaan addi maar ke leaadey ni bhuchchaal....bor bor hon jhanjhraaaaan addi maar ke laadey ni bhuchchaal...bor bor hon jhanjhraaaaan...

hassna te khedna chaa hunda mannda syaaneyaan ne sach farmaaya eh...ikk vaari giddeh'ch lyaandey billo gerra tere sajna swaal tainu paaya eh....ikk vaari giddeh'ch lyaandey billo gerra tere sajna swaal tainu paaya eh... nachchdi tu laggey mainu jaan tton pyaari.....nachchdi tu laggey mainu jaan tton pyaari rahe har veleh tera hee khyaal..bor bor hon jhanjhraaan...bor bor hon jhanjhraaan addi maar ke leaadey ni bhuchchaal..bor bor hon jhanjhraaan addi maar ke leaadey ni bhuchchaal...bor bor hon jhanjhraaaaaan...

pairaan de vich paaakey jhanjhraaan...pairaan de vich paaakey jhanjhraaan gutt da banaakey sapp ni..aaja nachchiyeh majaajney......kadiyeh giddeh de vatt ni ajja nachchiyeh majaajney.kadiyeh giddeh de vatt ni ajja nachchiyeh majaajney.....
kurriyon de vich ni banaalai taaur aapni tu khushiyaan de velaa ajj aaya ni..ghuttk peyaakey saanu kar madhosh...akhaan teriyaan'ch nasha jo samaaya ni... ghuttk peyaakey saanu kar madhosh...akhaan teriyaan'ch nasha jo samaaya ni....nachchdi da rang inj ho jaavey soohaa..nachchdi da rang inj ho jaavey soohaa jiven baaldey diwali de chiraag...bor bor hon jhanjhraaan...bor bor hon jhanjhraaan addi maar ke leaadey ni bhuchchaal..bor bor hon jhanjhraaan addi maar ke leaadey ni bhuchchaal...bor bor hon jhanjhraaaan...

tuttna panjebaan da khayaal kareen dil vich navaa tainu hor kharraungaa...chann tton leaakey chaani taareyaan da bor hatheen aapney ni tere mai sajaaungaa... chann tton leaakey chaani taareyaan da bor hatheen aapney ni tere mai sajaaungaa ...dil khush karde tu nachchke dhillon da..dil khush karde tu nachchke dhillon da mandi wale naal nachch ke vakhaa bor bor hon jhanjhraaan...bor bor hon jhanjhraaan addi maar ke leaadey ni bhuchchaal..bor bor hon jhanjhraaan addi maar ke leaadey ni bhuchchaal...bor bor hon jhanjhraaan...bor bor hon jhanjhraaan...bor bor hon jhanjhraaan...bor bor hon jhanjhraaan...bor bor hon jhanjhraaan...bor bor hon jhanjhraaan....bor bor hon jhanjhraaan....

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, April 02, 2007

Where do you wanna live?

Dear Mausam,
Did you hear about the Mercer Human Resource Consulting report for the year 2007?To learn about it click here .

What is surprising about this survey is that the cities from the most powerful country in the world (read USA) figure not too high on the list.
Points to remember:
- The highest ranked city from US is Honolulu which is not "really" america, the next best is San Francisco which is ranked 29th on the list. Boston is the next best city from US.( Did I tell you Mausam that as the countdown of my days left in Boston has started so is my love for this city suddenly building up)
- The predominance of almost all major cities of Australia and Canada in the top 50 list is striking (these two are the highest ranked, english speaking countries on the list).
- United Kingdom has only 1 entry in top 50!
- Did the Mercer guys forgot to review San Diego? Coz I can't think of any logical explanation as to why "heaven on earth" has'nt made it to this list!

Ah and just in case you interested, New Delhi, the highest ranked city in India, proudly occupies the 148th position on the survey!

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, March 19, 2007

Military draft,anyone?

Mausamji satshriakaal,

In a recent episode of the Daily Show,Jon Stewart made a very interesting point. He said if you want people to protest against the war in Iraq, then a draft should again be introduced(A military draft will mean every youth will have to serve in the army). If everyone will be required to enlist in the army, the youth of the country will come out in open and protest more vigorously against a war which has been a mistake since last 5 years.

That got me thinking, what will I do if a draft is introduced? Will I meekly take orders and go on my way to Iraq to kill innocent people, whom some have termed terrorists? I think I will not head for Iraq but will go to washington to oppose the war! Am I afraid of dying? Ofcourse I am. But what scares me more is the guilt that I would go through of doing something that I do'nt believe-in at all. The idea of taking orders from the dumbest president ever is too much for me! I feel so sorry for all the innocents serving in Iraq.

If we were at war with a real enemy, I would have served the nation, reluctantly at first, but I am sure my ego would have made me a brave patriotic man.

When so much is at stake itz so important to be led by an able leader, more so where there is a presidential form of govt. America needs a leader who inspires a nation. To go by whatever little I have heard of Obama, he to me comes across as an honest, inspirational and motivated leader. I hope Barack Obama turns out to be what I think he is.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

On an after thought ".....but Mr Optimist Ajj Kaim, politicians all over the world are just the same."

Sunday, March 18, 2007

The perils of communications

Mausam,
The recent surge in communication sector has meant that keeping in touch with friends and acquaintances has become extremely easy. The popularity of orkut has meant that now, more than ever, you can keep track of whereabouts of not only your friend(s) but also keep a tab on the circle of your friend(s). You can also observe their relationship with each other. Itz fascinating to watch how people interact with one another through orkut and other social networking websites, all you need is, spare time. You can not only meet some real old childhood friends but also relive some uncomfortable moments if you meet someone you really despise.( I hav'nt met any of those two kinds as yet!)
Thanks to less expensive call rates and surge in mobile phones, you can afford to be in touch with any person you want, at any time. I remember last time when I went back from US to india I had nothing really new to talk with my friends about my US trip because they already knew how my experience was, as I had shared all the events on the phone. So in a way the advances in technologies are also spoiling the fun of listening to the stories of your "phoren-returned" dost..
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, March 17, 2007

What do you know about China?

Recently I have read so much about how American parents are coaxing their kids to learn mandarin. Americans believe that learning mandarin will help them in their businesses a lot, keeping in mind the big impact the chinese market is having on world economy. While George Bush led western world, has been fighting a war against the "axis of evil", China has been busy doing its own thing; Progressing, improving every which way possible and quickly becoming a super power. I think China will formally announce itz arrival on the world stage, at the 2008 Bejing Olympics. They will probably use that opportunity to show the world about "who they are".
I think we indians are very much aware of the world around us, we are always upto date with the happenings in other big countries. Maybe the media in India is such that it focuses on news of the world a lot, or maybe our interest in other countries is generated because of the presence of large number of indian immigrants in those countries. I think if you keep in mind the size and population of all the BIG countries in mind then probably China is the only country about which we know so little about. It was only last year that I found out that people in China do not speak "Chinese" but mandarin. I still can't name any other city of China apart from Bejing ( Thanks to my geography teachers in school, I will never forget that Bejing was formerly called Peking)
Itz indeed surprising that we have so little exposure about the most populated country in the world which also happens to be our neighbour.
We talk a lot of how india is on itz way to become the "next China" but I think that is a far-fetched thought. India's massive population became a boon because of the large number of english speaking people so I do'nt think I will ever read about American parents asking their kids to learn hindi, if that ever happens, that day you can truly say "India Shining"

Wednesday, March 14, 2007

300


Hey Mausam,

300 is the name of the latest movie which I watched last night. 300 opened last friday and surprisingly grossed over $ 70 million in itz opening weekend. Itz a story of how 300 soldiers from Sparta fought against the mighty Persian army. The 300 Spartans die, but the film glorifies their heroism and bravery.
The film reminded me of the movie Gladiator during several instances but it lacked the life and realism which Gladiator so easily managed to potray. 300 is based on a comic book and you do get that feel. The movie is entertaining, no doubt, but it does'nt stir up your soul. The Spartan Greek soldiers are projected as brave, honest, extremly trained,"real" men in the movie and the Persians are projected as an enemy.
When the battle begins you are immediately reminded of the current political climate as the Persians have an Arabic look and they are shown fighting against the "white" greek men.
Watch the movie for the fabulous computer generated backgrounds and scenes, watch the movie if you like masala Hollywood movies.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

P.S.- I watched the movie in a theatre which is in the middle of Harvard University campus. As soon as I entered the theatre I saw a group of guys sitting in the theatre and waiting for the movie to begin, with one of them working on his laptop! People at Harvard value every minute I guess...

Sunday, March 04, 2007

Amreekan winters - 3

Mausam,

Itz the fag end of the winter season now. The locals tell me that this has been the warmest winter that they have seen in Boston. Well to me this was'nt too bad either, maybe I was too prepared mentally for the worst. There were only a few really cold days but by and large everything was under control. It was always that 10 minute walk to the train station which was a nightmare.
Anyway, I am sure this is definetly not the last of Amreekan winter for me, as things stand now it looks more than certain that I am headed to Indiana @ Krannert starting this summer (Cant think of any other place keeping in mind the awesome fee waiver that they have offered). The winters in Mid-west are even worse than what we have on the east coast ( If I end up at Smeal, the situation wont be too different coz State college too gets a lot of snow).
With piles of snow collected on the sidewalks, itz my daily routine to walk on the snow instead of the "clean" portion of the road. I find tremendous pleasure in stepping on the snow while walking and breaking it to further pieces. The strange screech which I hear while walking on the snow, gives me the same kind of kick that a child gets when he/she prefers stepping on every raised surface that he/she encounters while walking (a kid always likes walking on stairs in the way, a raised boundary wall, any uneven surface they encounter....Do you know what i mean?). I few slips and skids hav'nt deterred my habit, I think I am awaiting a major injury by a fall, before I decide to change my habit!
Getting admit from various good schools has been a tremendous high. My limited hardwork has paid rich dividends and I hope it so remains the case in future too. I think I have many well wishers, and they truly wanted my success and probably that has helped me immensly.
There is so much to do, so much to accomplish, I hope I do'nt lose focus of what is right and what is wrong. I recently made up my mind to do things which I think are right, instead of doing things which others expect me to do; So it becomes even more crucial for me to make the right decisions at all times.
Since quite sometime now, I always had set targets that the circumstances had set for me, for example; Giving exams during engineering, working on various projects at work, taking up Gmat, meeting application submission deadlines etc, so there was'nt ever a time since so long, when some external "thing" was'nt monitoring me. But I think the next 3-4 months are going to be crucial in the sense that I will have to set my own internal goals and achieve them and if i know myself then itz going to be one hell of a task. Lets see if I have learned something from the past experiences. I think this has been one of the worst blog posts (entertainment wise) and also one of the most different.
Mausam, lieff rocks!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Winamp playing : Chanda Re from Eklavya (slow and sweet)

Saturday, February 24, 2007

Guilty Until Proven Innocent?

Dear Mausam,
Few days back I read in a magazine something really astonishing and stunning. We often lament about the sad state of affairs of the indian judicial system, but let me shed some light about the judicial system in one of the most advanced country of the world, Japan.
In Japan,
An accused is guilty until proven innocent!
Accused can be held for interrogation for 23 days without any charge, without being offered bail, and without proper legal representation!
The conviction rate in Japan is over 99%.
With 99% conviction rate an accused is better off accepting all the charges levelled against him/her as that will ensure a relatively lenient punishment.
A new movie called "I Just Didn't Do It" by a Japanese director highlights this very aspect of Japanese society. Thankfully, the Indian Judicial system is far better in comparison.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Thursday, February 22, 2007

I found an interesting website!

Satshriakaal Mausam,

During a chance web surfing I landed up on this amazing website. This website has a lot of info about the various Gurudwaras around the world apart from other exciting information.

The punjabi recipes is another interesting section. Unlike many cook-books this website contains so many practical recipes for numerous mouth watering punjabi dishes. If you have a taste for the punjabi food and if you have hardly ever cooked in life, I am sure you will thank me for introducing you to this website :-)

My favourite section is the Punjabi Video section. It has a collection of so many quality punjabi videos. No vulgarity, no nonsense, pure quality entertainment. My favourite are the Bhagwant Mann videos. I think Bhagwant Mann is the most authentic funny man that we have in Punjab. He does suck when he tries the hindi comedy which definitely is not his forte.

This website is a handiwork of a punjabi gentleman who is originally from my village but is now settled in Australia since a number of years. He spends 5 hours everyday after his work working on his pet website; uploading videos, inserting valuable information, adding interesting stuff and making a difference in the world in his own way. Slowly but surely nurturing his wonderful baby website. (You wonder how I know this? Well I had a chance encounter with him online thatz how I know this!)
If it was not for him, I would'nt have listened to some of the Kirtan that I did hear through the website and you know what Mausam, I also realised finally that the Kirtans bring a calmness to you.Try it out yourself in case you already hav'nt.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Haircut - Pappu Style!


Mausam,

No matter how many times you tell a barber to cut your hair as "medium", they will make sure to give you a Pappu look. I wonder why even they bother asking you what kind of haircut do you want. Probably thatz the price you pay for getting a 15$ haircut. I probably need to visit a hair salon and shell out more money in case I want my hair cut to a medium length. I miss those 25Rs haircuts...

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sunday, February 18, 2007

Ultimate Gidha

Dear Mausam,
I have been thrilled by the Bhangra video in the last post and have seen it more than 10 times already. Itz been so long since I last saw a genuine Gidha performance and this one surely is awesome.
I do'nt know why punjabi girls have stopped liking Gidha and prefer Bhangra instead. I think girls look so much graceful performing Gidha than Bhangra. Bhangra has always been a guy's dance and it should remain that way. Guys will never look good performing Gidha and vice-versa. No matter how well girls master the steps of Bhangra they will never be able to look aesthetic (as you can see in countless girls-doing-bhangra videos on youtube). All you girls out there please learn Gidha, learn all the bolliz and lets keep this traditional dance form alive.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, February 17, 2007

Ultimate Bhangra

Satshriakal Mausam,

This is truly an ultimate bhangra video! totally professional and top of the line. After watching so many terrible dance performances in Yo-amrika which people here like to call Bhangra, this "real" Bhangra performance seems so refreshing. Itz been so long since I last performed on stage, itz been so long since I last created a composition, itz been so long since I last practised...

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, February 10, 2007

Jaspal Bhatti wrote ....

(Source: Hindustan Times)

I have a question for the Chief Election Commissioner.

With so much entertainment in the Punjab Assembly elections, why doesn’t he impose an entertainment tax on the public?

When the Shromani Akali Dal supremo Parkash Singh Badal says he will give the poor atta and dal at Rs. 4 and Rs. 20 per kilo respectively, many in the gathering laugh. When Capt. Amarinder Singh promises 20,000 jobs through mega projects, the unemployed smirk and wonder what he has been doing for the last five years. Probably calculating the figure of 20,000.

A LAUGH-A-PROMISE - Not to be left out, we too have launched a party: the Land Grabbers and Dealers Party (LGDP). Our aim is to create political humour and to take digs at corrupt politicians. Unfortunately, we couldn’t file nomination papers because of infighting over who would become CM if we came to power. So, now we can make the weirdest promises till next elections. Like not just free atta and dal but also our party workers as cooks, a fourlane highways to the moon, jobs for everyone and a free motorbike with every job as an incentive to come to office. There shall be no dearth of promises, as they are only meant to attract and make people laugh.

BEING A GOOD SPORT? - Back to the actual Punjab elections, Navjot Singh Sidhu, BJP’s candidate from Amritsar, has assigned himself the task of amusing the masses. Pitted against Congress’ Surinder Singla, Sidhu declares that Singla is like a lamb he can slay anytime. Singla says he’ll see to it that Sidhu leaves Amritsar after pawning his house. Seems like one is a butcher, and the other a property dealer by profession.

In a verbal duel on a private TV channel, Singla, who is Punjab’s current Finance Minister, called Sidhu a murderer, while Sidhu said Singla was an agent of Reliance. If they’d been given gloves and helmets, the Election Commission could have sold the entertainment rights to sports channels.

A SPIRITED ANNOUNCEMENT - From being the land of milk and lassi, Punjab today has become the land of liquor shops. Sensing the importance of liquor, we launched the Sharabi Dal, and announced its merger with the LGDP. We have declared uninterrupted supply of liquor during elections (though clandestinely, as the Election Commission has ordered closure of liquor shops on polling days). In case of urgencies, however, we will home deliver liquor. Our endeavour will be to open sharab bhattis all over Punjab and we promise 50 per cent of the profits to local police. Capt. Amarinder Singh has declared he won’t allow a drop of water to go out from the Punjab rivers: he probably realises that the swelling population of sharabis need water to go with their drinks.

POSTER BOYS Campaign advertising is at its most inno vative and outrageous best. There’s a mudslinging match on. One Akali ad shows a bankrupt Maharaja who has looted Punjab of Rs 30,000 crores with pictures of Capt. Amarinder’s Motibagh Palace before and after renovation. The Captain’s supporters, meanwhile, project Badal as corrupt. Looters, thugs, plunderers, killers, murderers, cheaters are some of the descrip tives used for opponents.

NUMBER GAME - Badal declares that number seven is lucky for him be cause in 1970, 1977, and 1997 he was the CM. This year is 2007, so he’ll become CM. Capt. Amarinder, after praying at various religious places, announces that number seven is luckier for him.

RAM VERSUS RAVANA - The first question about a candidate is: Who is he re lated to? Many tickets have been given out to relatives of bigwigs. If someone is not connected to the Badals or Amarinder or Bhattal, the second question is: “How much was paid to get the ticket?” In Kapurthala, the wife of Rana Gurjit Singh (Congress MP from Jaland har) is contesting.

In Dhanola, Kuldeep Bhattal, the brother of Deputy CM Rajinder Kaur Bhattal is in the fray. Manpreet Brar, nephew of Parkash Singh Badal is SAD’s nomi nee in Gidderbaha. In Lambi, where Parkash Singh Badal is contesting, his brother Mahesh Inder Singh is challenging him from the Congress. If a brother can be fielded against brother, then why not Ram against Ra vana? In Pathankot, Ashok Sharma who has played Ram in the local Ram Lila is Congress’s nominee, his opponent is BJP’s Master Mohan Lal, who has played Ravana. Lal says Sharma is a fake Ram and Ashok says Lal is a real Ravana. Voting decisions could be based on the candidates’ performance in the Ram Lila. Had the Election Commission imposed tax on it, it would have covered half the cost of elections.

Friday, February 09, 2007

X-i-ting timez

Mausam,

I had decided to pursue an MBA since the 2nd year of my under-grad. Back then I had realised that Computer engineering is not my cup of tea and others around me made sure that they made me realise this fact too, that, how unfit I was as an engineer and fit I was in a managerial role.
So all these years I have been living the dream of someday earning my MBA from a "reputed university". My mediocre grades and average GMAT ensured that getting into a "reputed school" was a task, a touch more difficult. I helped my cause in no way by ignoring my broz constant advise about my application process.
A telephonic interview with Kenan-Flagler was an awakening and made me realise how ill prepared I was for the struggle, I felt I had almost lost it, my grand plans seemed doomed. But as I often say that "I am God's blessed child", I managed to pull my act together and performed a lot better in the next few interviews.
I have realised that to get into a good MBA school you have to act like a salesperson, You have to present your case the best. The product you are selling is YOU, Yourself.
Thanks to an improved showing in few of the interviews, I have managed a couple of positive decisions and now I can see my dream of studying in a "reputed school" coming true.
Thanks to admission committee at Rady and at Smeal, the pain of being waitlisted at Marshall suddenly has lessened.
A lot of hard work is in store over the next couple of years, I know I will leave no stone unturned coz after so long I have found something so motivating and exciting.
I am HaPpY!

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Winamp playlist since a week now:
1) Maula mere Maula - Anwar
2) Javeda Zindagi (Tose Naina Lagey) - Anwar
3) Tere bin - Rabbi Shergill

Tuesday, February 06, 2007

Million Dollar question

Mausam,I got a question for you.

What is more important in life, "a reasonable job in an amazing city" or "a high paying job in a reasonable city"?

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, January 26, 2007

Hail the Guru!

Mausam, I watched the last day last show of the movie "Guru" last night. The Abhishek-Aishwarya starrer has been on the Movies-I-must-watch list ever since I heard the soundtrack. The last movie that Mani ratnam directed was Yuva which i absolutely adored though it flopped bigtime. But the promos, the cast, the music, the support team were enough reasons for me to watch this one. The movie is as good as the songs "Aie Hairathe aashiquee" and "Tere Bina" are.
I braved the -5 degree F temperature to reach the theatre, an effort which becomes even more astonishing when you consider that I had to walk atleast a mile to reach the theatre and also I went there all by myself!
No matter how many times Abhishek, Ratnam deny that itz not based on Dirubhai but within 5 mins of the start of the movie you know that the similarity with the Ambaniz will be hard to miss. Not only the main leads very impressive but the rest of the cast perform extremly well too. Aish does'nt have much role other than to look good, which she does, she really has about 2-3 scenes which could have made or marred her performance in the movie and she gets a thumbs up in those scenes.
Guru is completely Abhishek Bachchan movie and he delivers a stunning performance. His transition from a youthful ambitious lad to a chieftain of the biggest indian company is smooth and realistic.
Abhishek's understanding with Mithun in this movie is very unique. It has been a while since I saw such a relationship being potrayed on screen. Madhavan's motives for his actions were kind of vague, his role could have been a little more defined. Vidya Balan as a handicap did'nt suit the part. But the scene where Madhavan proposes to her is shot really well and Vidya Balan's acting stands out.
Going back to Abhishek, well there are quite a few scenes where his resemblence with Big B is hard to miss. Atleast in this movie Abhishek does as well as Big B performed in any of his movies. There were hardly any flaws in the Junior B's performance. He was very articulative during the court scene towards the end of the movie. The songs were well woven into the movie, and all songs helped the story move forward. All in all it was a wonderful experience and my love for bollywood movie continues. I did'nt mind the extremely cold and windy night coz the movie was worth all the time and effort.
By the way, Happy Republic Day! That reminds me a year from now I had watched the parade.
Till the next time,Vande Mataram!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Scribbles

Hey Mausam,
I finally found the song that I have been searching for sometime now. The song is "Hai dhuan hai dhuan" by Vikas Bhalla. I remember this song was first released in 90's and I liked it back then but that album sinked without a trace.Vikas Bhalla-the singer had the same fate as Vikas Bhalla-the actor but this song has kept him very much alive for me.
While listening to this song my mind suddenly ran back to the past century and I remembered some of the things I miss. I wanna watch the re-run of Didi's comedy show which used to be aired on Doordarshan on sunday evenings, that show was so much better than Mr Bean of modern era. I wanna watch Jaspal Bhatti's Flop show, each episode of it was so hilarious, it easily qualifies as the best indian comedy show ever. I remember Yeh jo Hai Zindagi used to be a laugh riot but I do'nt recall any episodes from that show. Small Wonder was another sitcom which I loved during my growing up years.
Enough of blogging, time to get back to work!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Do you smell like Achchar?

Mausam Kaur,

A friend of mine advised me "Ajj Kaim, keep the clothes which you wear while cooking separate from the clothes you wear while going out. The logic being that the clothes which you wear while cooking seep in the smell of indian masalaz and that smell is very distracting for other people." I have kept this point in mind ever since I was told but thought I do'nt have to worry about it as I am still eating "maa ke haath ka khaana". But the reality is a little different.
A few days back I smelled my jacket while on my way to work and it smelled of Achchar/pickle! Now why did this happen I have no clue, but I had another surprise in store just a couple of dayz back when I realised that our very own smell of Achchar has also invaded my Suit!
This is so surprising, I mean I do'nt remember even eating achchar while wearing that particular suit. I think the only pausible explanation is that the smell of achchar has spread in all my clothes now that I have in my house.
But why the smell is of Achchar? I think it is because Achchar encompasses the smell of all the masalaz that we use in our cooking. So maybe itz not because of achchar but itz just that we recognise that smell the best.
I remember when my bro was staying with his Thai roommate I could'nt stand the smell of his Thai roommate's cooking. Probably all the goraz, kallaz,chinkaaz feel the same way when they stand close to me in the trains. I think now the Desism of Ajj Kaim is complete. I cannot get more Desi than this. he he :-)
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sunday, January 14, 2007

I want an Iphone


Satshriakaal Mausam Kaur,

How's life? Where you been? I hope all's well at your end. I saw the keynote delivered by Steve Jobs about the iphone on 10th of January and ever since that day I have been enthralled by this latest gizmo.
It is still 6 months before the product comes to the market but already the anticipation of the iphone is phenomenal.
Since about a year now everybody has been awaiting the iphone from the Apple stable. I was sure that iphone would be an amazing product but this product has exceeded all my expectations.
I have never been fond of cars, I never wanted a bike, I never clamored for a particular cellphone but after I saw the iphone, I have suddenly become a kid. I want it.....I am so mesmerized with this phone that to buy it, I am ready to break my contract with T-mobile and switch to cingular! A move which will cost me $700. But I think/hope better sense will prevail.
The day the new phone was unveiled Apple's share rose by 8%. That Apple is going to launch the phone in January was known since October, why did'nt I think of buying the shares then! another opportunity missed :-p.
I am sure there will be crazy scenes outside Cingular stores come June. Iphone will definitely become the most sought after gadget of 2007 and 2008! A tag which was/is associated with Ipod. Apple Inc. Rocks!

Anyways, I am listening to the song Chura Liya by Bally Sagoo right now and this is one song which becomes a totally different experience if you play it on awesome speakers!

Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Sunday, December 31, 2006

Resolutions-2007

Hey Mausam,

I compiled the list of my resolutions for 2007.

1. I will exercise daily.

2. I will read atleast 1 book every month. (Atleast 6 of those should be management/finance related)

3. I will explore and travel in US, Europe and India.

4. I will learn Ball room dancing/Jive.

5. I will learn to cook North Indian dishes ( most likely to accomplish)

Happy New Year, I pray for world peace on this day. Waheguru sab te mehr kareeen

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Iraq

Dear Mausam,
Saddam Hussein was hanged a couple of days back, bringing an end to a life of a dictator who hogged the world headlines for the last 25 years.
They say he committed a lot of atrocities against the Kurds and Shias, They say he massacred ordinary people. They say he deceived his son-in-laws and murdered them. They say he wrongfully invaded Kuwait in late 90s. Okay, Point taken.
Maybe Saddam did all this and deserves the punishment that he got, but who in the world allowed the media to film Saddam's death. How can someone make fun of a man who is about to die! How can someone think about filming such a sensitive moment, capturing the expressions, procedure and thoughts of the person. Why do some people have the guts to commercialise something as naked as death.
I feel sorry for Saddam who was commercialised as a "hot-product" by the media in his last days, I am sorry for his supporters who will see the last few seconds of their beloved leader's life, long after his death. To actually make video of someone's hanging is worse than public hanging, because in a public hanging only few people present watch it, but now the whole world is watching this inhuman act.
George Bush the self proclaimed advocate of "democracy" should know that the last time a public hanging was carried out in democratic America was in 1936!
I am sure Bush Junior must have made Bush Senior proud by finally capturing/hanging his Dad's enemy.
And Saddam Hussein, you probably deserved the punishment but I must say you were one hell of a gutsy guy, who single handedly stood up against the Americans, you had the courage to justify your wrong doings and not conceal the truth, unlike some of the leaders. I hope people who are responsible for making Iraq a mess in the last 3 years also have the same fate.
The death toll of Americans dead in Iraq is more than the death toll of lives lost in september 11 attack.
Ask yourself, who is responsible for this?
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, December 25, 2006

..pursuing happyness

Dear Mausam,
If you been going with the flow since sometime now, if you been letting things to drift apart, if you wish to get hold of your life again and if you looking for some motivation, I got a perfect remedy.
Go watch "The Pursuit of Happyness" and come back motivated, excited, thrilled and happy.
A few lessons that the movie reminded me of
1. Our life is better than the life's of many other people.
2. We set our own limits.
3. If you really want something, you will get it.

And a tip from my brother, watch the movie early in the morning, so that atleast for that particular day you will manage maximum output.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sunday, December 24, 2006

Amreekan winters - 2

Mausam!
The Grand Daddy of all festivals is here, Christmas.
Christmas is to Amreekans what Diwali is to indians. So I expected the same intensity in this festival too. But the difference between the two is way too stark. Diwali, like everything else in india is celebrated with a lot of fanfare. Lot of crackers, a lot of music, a lot of traffic and a lot of sweets but in contrast Christmas, like all things in US is "dry", sure the gifts, sweets are integral part of this festival and Santa is to Christmas, what Lakshmi is to Diwali but I hate seeing empty streets a day before the Christmas. The usual days have more "raunak" than a christmas day..
"Thande-thande paani se nahaana chaiyeh"- I got a chance to hum this song today evening, when suddenly the shower decided to remind me about the days in india when the geyser used to go kaput! Hopefully will get the shower fixed soon.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, December 18, 2006

The joy of reading News

Mausam Kaur,
After every historic indian victory I used to wait for the newspaper the next morning. After every general election, I used to get my hands on every newspaper I could find. A day after every budget session, every historic development I always used to wait for the next day's newspaper so that I could read in detail about the developments, dissect every detail possible.Who did what? who said what? How the plot unfolded? etc etc. More so on days when India registered famous victories; A win in Pakistan, Sucess in a nail biting One Day encounter or the Triumph Down Under.
Today is going to be one such day. Against all odds, India won by a thumping margin of 123 runs against the Proteas. A victory which made Sreesanth an unlikely hero (his antics against Andrew Nel were ludicrous) and helped resurrect the careers of Ganguly and Laxman.
As if this news was not enough, finally justice prevailed in the Jessica Lal murder case and Manu Sharma has now been convicted. Judges finally believed what every sensible soul knew all these years. Though the case will now go to Supreme Court but for once everyone will heave a sigh of relief.
After going through Rediff , samachar.com , Indiatimes and BBC now Itz time to wait for the print editions of HT and TOI !
Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Friday, December 08, 2006

Amreekan winters - 1


Satshriakaal Mausam,

It was predicted that today was going to be the coldest day for this season till now and it sure is!

Though the temperature is 20F or -6 degree Celsius but it feels like 2F or -16 degree Celsius because of the wind!

When I stepped out of the house for work, I was all packed up in multi layers of cloth and then I saw this girl walking briskly on the sidewalk wearing a knee length skirt! I kept staring at her legs for a while to make sure that I was not mistaken. Suddenly, all the criticism I used to heap on girls in India who used to wear skirts at New Year parties where the temperature was mere zero degree seems so meaningless.
If some girl can wear a skirt on a normal Friday morning on way to work when the temperature is -16 degree Celsius then that girl sure is unique. what say you?

Regards,
Ajj Kaim
P.S.-I have named this post amreekan winters 1 coz I will be continue to write a series of posts about my experiences in winter season.

Thursday, December 07, 2006

Invention!

Heyy Mausam,

I made an invention day before yesterday. On your cellphone have you tried pressing the "*" key? When you hold that key the display changes from "*" to "p" on the screen! Do you know what that "p" is? p stands for Pause. Do you know why that "p" is used? Have you called a number where you are greeted by a pre-recorded message and then you have to listen to all the prompts and then press the appropriate choice, wait a little longer and navigate further by listening and pressing the appropriate choice! In such circumstances, the "p"ause key comes into use.With this "p" there is a pause for 2 seconds before a number is dialled further.
Recommendation
For all you desiz out there if you use Reliance calling cards to call india then save all your indian numbers as [reliance toll free number] p 91[destination number] and this way you do'nt need to remember everybody's number!

Do I make sense here at all!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, November 27, 2006

Presidential pardon

Dear Mausam,
Sometime back the Supreme court convicted Mohammad Afzal of conspiring the attack on Indian parliament and sentenced him to death. Afzal appealed to the president of india to grant him clemency and is awaiting the President's verdict.
In school during my Civics class, I read about the indian constitution in detail. How the parliament is elected? what's the procedure of its working? and what role each elected member plays? All these questions were answered.
The thing that struck me was, the president of india though revered a lot, had extremely limited powers. One of the only real power the president has is- pardon a convict or reduce the convict's sentence. As far as I remember President Narayanan had pardoned the Russian convicts in the Purrila armsdrop case.Rapist and murderer,Dhananjoy Chatterjee's mercy petition was rejected by Mr. Abdul Kalam. But the situation he faces with Afzal is completely different. The kind of media coverage Afzal has received has been unprecedented. All eyes have been on the president to know what he finally decides. Even though the supreme court awarded him death penalty still the rumour mills have been abuzz about how right the death sentence is.
Politicians from across party lines have been speaking for and against the verdict and as a result the task of Abdul kalam has been made even more tough. There have been arguments that Abdul Kalam will pardon him because Afzal is a muslim or Afzal will not be pardoned as he is a Kashmiri. Such baseless arguments have made sure that this issue will not escape the country's focus.
I think the role of a president is even tougher than that of a judge, coz a judge can take a hard decision and defend himself against public outrage by saying that he went by the evidence as he is bound by the constitution but in case of a president, it is just the president's conviction which matters.
In another court related story, Sanjay Dutt is awaiting judgement for his involvement in 1992 Mumbai Blast case. By the time you read this the verdict would already be out. I just hope and pray that Sanjay Dutt is pardoned. The guy has gone through enough already. I wish he gets his freedom after all these years.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Wednesday, November 22, 2006

Resisting change. Why?

Satshriakaal Mausam,
Why do I resist taking a different route to work? Why I resist trying some other chocolate than Snickers? Why I am resisting the switch to Blogger beta? Why do I avoid trying anything other than Pineapple juice.

I tried to stick with chandigarh for as long as I could. I hated Delhi when i moved from chandigarh but by the time I was about to leave Delhi, I was absolutely smitten by the place and tried to stick as long as I could.Why?

Why am I always on guard from making friends? Why all of a sudden I have started liking Boston so much even though I have hardly known the city? Why am I dreading the winters so much? Why do some people resist change more than others do?
Some people manage to fit in a new environment so smoothly that they are tuned in with the system from the word go. I think I am one of those who take time to get into something new, once I manage that, I completely put my heart and soul into it. By the time something newer comes up I am so much in love with the old thing that the cycle repeats itself again.

I want to believe that those who can easily mingle in a new setup make a superficial adjustment and do'nt really make strong relationship/connection within the new system and thatz where people like me are different and successful.Is this statement justified?
Was I always like this? Is this behavior wrong?If Yes, Can this behavior be changed?
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Winamp playing: chorrr aaye hum woh galiyaaaan from Maachis

Sunday, November 19, 2006

Cribbing continues...

Dear Mausam Kaur,

weather.com said that the temperature was 44 degree fahrenheit ,but it felt worse. Maybe it was coz of the wind.Maybe it was coz I was right next to the Charles river. I could'nt keep my hands out, as the wind was sharp enough to hurt. The day was chilly and gloomy.I started walking, with my ipod. (I have been in love with my ipod ever since I bought it. It has been the best thing that has happened to me in a long-long time. I am in totally a different world when I am with my ipod.)
I heard "Ay Hairathe" and "Tera Bina" from Guru, multiple times. Tracks from "Mannat" and "Dil Aapna Punjabi" gave me company.Jagjit Singh, Nazia Hassan and Alam Lohar had their share. I kept walking along the Charles River, crossing numerous exercise freaks and strollers. The ducks in the river looked at me inquisitively.
After a while my knees started hurting and that is when I realised that I had been walking for 2 hours at a stretch! I had to take a train ride back coz there was no way I could have retraced my path.
A couple of weeks ago I went for trials for Boston Bhangra. There were about 20 people who were trying for a place in the team. A team which would have participated on behalf of Boston Bhangra all across US. A while back I received a mail from those guys that I am not on their team!
Holy Cow!
When I was in India I was an automatic selection for any Bhangra team that I wanted to be part of. But here in USA, where the standard of Bhangra is at best, pathetic. I have been rejected. I think I am my biggest critic and I never shrug to criticize myself. I make no bones about the fact that I am a pathetic engineer but there is one thing that I know I am one of the best and that is Bhangra. Accepted that I need to built my stamina for actual stage performance standards, but that is not something beyond me. I wrote a mail back to thoseBoston Bhangra guys expressing my disappointment. To which they replied back talking about how fair their selection process was. The guy who was incharge of the selection process braggingly told me at the trials that he 'z been performing Bhangra since 2001, I resisted telling him "dude, I stopped performing Bhangra in 2001, when you started learning Bhangra".
Maybe times have changed...as Harbhajan Mann sang in the song "Tin Rang"
".....Sadaa na baageen bul bul bolle.. oye sada na mauj baharaan, sadaa na rehndi chadi jawaani oye sadaa na mehfil yaaraan,
kaun sukhaan diyan gharriyaan gindah, kaunn sukhaan diyan kadiyan gindah kon khushi nu naapey..."
I am longing to get done with this application process, coz I got to take care of a lot of stuff...
Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Thursday, November 16, 2006

All's well that ends well

Dear Mausam,

Yesterday night I finally submitted my first application for business school.

Last minute application surprises meant that I missed the first deadline by half hour.

Things which I had delayed since last 2 months suddenly fell into place when time left was under 5 hours.

Deservingly so, my folks gave me their piece of mind about my sheer carelessness.

Atleast now I know what all things I need to keep in mind while sending applications and how much time it actually takes to send an application.

My recommenders were extremely patient and nice in helping me out at the last minute.

From now on, no more last minute blues.

As they say, all's well that ends well.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

winamp playing "Sau dard hain.." from Jaan-e-mann, on a loop

Monday, November 13, 2006

A unique skill

Time Wastage is one skill that I have completely mastered. Give me 2 months to do a single task and I will kill those 2 months and the work assigned would still be pending.Beat that!
Acquring this skill has not been an easy task. I have gone through rigorous training to master each technique. 26 years of toil has helped me in reaching the pinnacle of excellence.
In the face of repeated failure, unending criticism and fierce disapproval I have stood my ground.
But now I am tired of all this. I wish to relinquish my thrown now, time to get a life...
Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Saturday, November 11, 2006

Mewzik & "have i changed?"

Mausam Kaur Hi!
I knew there was no other therapy which could help me get out of the prolonged bad mood. So I decided to opt for the remedy which had worked with cent per cent positive results, music.
Out came my much cherished CD case and I copied a few punjabi, a few hindi songs to my computer (since the time i have come to US, I rarely listen to english music) . Whether it was Satwinder Bugga, Harbhajan Shera, Kailash Kher, Atif Aslam, Jal or Nachchattar Gill, all contributed.
8 hours of continuous music, did help in the end :-)
One of my bro's friend came to our house for the first time today. I did'nt even know of this friend's existence before he came in, so I thought he definitely was not his best buddy types.I was sitting in the adjacent room when he came. Under normal circumstances I would have left whatever I was doing and would have gone to greet and welcome the guest but today I decided to carry on with whatever i was doing.
After a while our guest glanced into the room, i was at the farthest end of the room and we exchanged pleasantries with a simple american "wassup!" without any smile. With that act of mine I surprised not only my mom but also myself, coz this was not the way how I used to treat guests.

Have I changed as a person since the time I came here? I reasoned myself about my action that " He was just an acquaintance and I should continue with what I was doing rather than spoiling my concentration."
I strongly believe that I am too stubborn to change, just coz the country where i am these days has changed, but what if I am wrong?
Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Sunday, November 05, 2006

6 months in US

Mausam,

When one is happy time seems to fly away but the last 6 months have been a crawl. If I have to summarize my life and try to figure out which has been the best period, then the time I spent in delhi while working has been the most fruitful. I was under control of my life, I was doing things which I thought were right, I was tackling a different set of problems but I preferred them coz I was the one who was responsible for all those.
My stay at Punjab University was extremely satisfying. I was so relaxed in those days. I was most calm internally then.
I am in US since last 6 months. Am I really in US? I am not doing anything we usually expect from someone in US.Few days back I realised that the last time I ate a pizza/burger was more than 6 months back in india.I do'nt remember even a single fun thing I did.The only high point has been my california visit for the wedding. I have become so boring. This is happening, coz I am not making decisions for myself, itz not that someone else is making decisions but juts that the circumstances are such that things have become so different.This is not me, this is not my life, I want my life back...
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, October 30, 2006

Time after Time

Satshriakaal Mausam,
I woke up on sunday morning and was confused that how the time on the laptop and cellphone had a one hour difference. A little googling helped me understand the catch that it was that time of the year when all americans are asked to stop their watches for 1 hour. I find this activity rather absurd. It looks so primitive. I tried to find online about the reasons behind this ritual but did'nt find any suitable explanation.
On sunday evening I slept at midnight because that's the time I usually sleep. I was quite tired unlike regular evenings coz my body clock still considered the time to be 1 a.m. and as habit would have it I woke up at 7 am coz that is what my body clock was used to now but the clock had struck 6 instead. The whole day I had the sickening feeling and kept questioning myself about the logic behind this one hour time difference. I kept arguing with myself that "People can stop the clocks for one hour but they cannot stop the body clock of a person for anytime at all". I was about to label the daylight saving time activity as another of America's "we are different" policies but then I chanced upon looking here and realised americans are not the only ones.My body clock says itz 12:30 in the night, so time to sleep.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Thursday, October 26, 2006

Politicians...here and there

Dear Mausam,
So Mr Bush finally acknowledged that things are not going all too well in Iraq. Most probably the impending election to the congress had an impact on he changing his stubborn stand. But whatever maybe the reasons, finally he budged from his "We are winning" line. Bush admitted miscalculations in the invasion of Iraq and disappointments after more than three years.

I am surprised and glad Bush decided not to invade North Korea even though North Korea test fired their nukes. Taking into consideration that Bush invaded Iraq just on the suspicion that they may have nuclear capabilities, his North Korean diplomacy is all the more sweet. Whatever maybe the reasons for Mr Bush's change of heart atleast it saved us from seeing another round of bloodshed.
Itz funny how all the Republican candidates contesting in the elections are trying to dissuade themselves from Bush. There have been numerous reports of Republican nominees leaving the state for a day or two so that they do'nt have to face the embarrassment of meeting up with Bush when he comes to their state!
Meanwhile I have stopped feeling disgusted by the antics of the indian politicians. The faction of Simranjeet Singh Mann's party clashed again (using swords and lathis in Amritsar) with Parkash Singh Badal's SAD and in the riot Simranjeet Singh got injured. When will these veterans grow-up.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, October 20, 2006

encounter at an ATM machine

Hey Mausam,
On my way home from work I reached South Station from where I had to catch a connecting train.All of a sudden I realised that I did'nt had enough cash on me so I went to one of the two Bank of America ATMs located inside the station itself. As I approached the ATM machine I saw a man already making a transaction on another machine and I quitely got busy in my own thing. While I was still scrambling to find the card from my wallet, the man on the other ATM machine left. As soon as he left I realised that the man did'nt took his transaction receipt/statement along. Now I had such a strong urge of quickly grabbing the receipt and look as to what was the balance in the man's bank account! I kept thinking while I was carrying out the transaction as to should i pick-up the receipt or not. While I was still contemplating the pros and cons of my probable action, I was done with my transaction and it was time to take the call, should i or should i not?

With a stroke of hand I grabbed the recipt. The balance was $22. Just $22. I started questioning/contemplating/justifying myself as to why a 40ish man who "looked" pretty educated, relatively rich would have just $22 in his account. Another observation was that he had paid $2 for using the ATM,It means that the man did not have a BoA account or he did'nt had enough cash in his BoA account. He did'nt have an account with the Sovereign Bank either as their ATM was right next to BoA ATM.Considering that BoA and Soverign Bank are two of the most popular banks in Massachusetts why will someone not have an account in these banks?
There can be numerous explanations as to why the middle aged man had just $22 in his account but the most obvious reason was that he was not rich. That is what struck me.
Since last few years I have been fairly satisfied with my financial affairs because I always had this strong belief that as life progresses I will make more assets and after a while I will not be in any sort of financial crunch. But when I imagined myself in that man's shoes I realised that it would be truly depressing, if at the age of 40 I will have just $22 in my bank account!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

PS:I guess in the end,the cheap act of peeping into someone else's ATM statement was'nt all that bad.

Thursday, October 19, 2006

Cry baby

The days and nights are passing by,I have become a silent spectator. The internal turmoil is killing me.I hate it when I am not under control of things. This blog is way too public for me to pour out my angst...
Ranting ain't going to help in anyway, "I had the blues because I had no shoes, until I saw a man on street who had no feet".Good days are not far Ajj Kaim Singh. Just hold on, Slowly but surely you will get things back on track.Stay calm and focused.

P.S.: Do'nt ask me any questions as to why I wrote all this!

Wednesday, October 18, 2006

Chehra Hai Ya...

This is my all-time favourite songgg...
the only song for which I know the lyrics by heart

Sunday, October 15, 2006

Dear Google Team

Hi!
I am a humble user of your popular email service gmail.com. Like most of the people in this world I have been in awe and have high regard for almost everything that you people have done.
I have had blind faith in every product that you guys came up with.I even dedicated a post to you. But my experience over the past week has been terrible. I will restate my problem again. Since over a week now I have been unable to send any mails from my primary account which is ______@gmail.com. Everytime I try sending a mail the message that I get is " Your message could not be sent because you have exceeded your mail quota". It tells me that I have used 2770 MB out of a total of 2774 MB. I have now deleted almost all my mails from Inbox/Spam/Chats/Trash/Starred/Send mail folders and there are hardly any attachments left but still that figure of 2770MB never decreases! I have exchanged 10 mails with your automated response id "mail-support@google.com" but that has'nt helped either. So what do I do now? The worst part is that if it was any other company I would have googled to find the number of the helpdesk but in this case I can't even find any kind of contact number. Now do'nt tell me to go on to the discussion forums because I have tried my luck there too but it has'nt helped at all.
When this problem started I thought "If I email these people they surely will fix it in a day or two", I do'nt know why, but I had this blind faith,maybe because you were "the company without flaws".But that faith is slowly taking a beating. The realisation that you are just another corporation which too has chinks in its armour is setting in.

Some people said "Get a new account what is the big deal?", I had thought the same too, before I was faced with this situation. That email id has become my identity, and I do'nt want to lose it.
If this was some government office in india then I sure would have found some uncle's distant relative working in that office and got my work done but this is corporate america, here the rules are different, infact there are no rules formed so I have no idea how to approach this matter further. I did find the names of all you top notch executives but I do'nt know how I should approach this matter further.
I never knew a mere email address could become such a big deal but for the last one week it truly has.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, October 13, 2006

e-life

Satshriakaal Mausam Kaur,
Not too long ago I believed that my life in real and my life on internet are totally seperate, but with me moving to Amreeka and with internet becoming the primary source of keeping in touch with most of my friends, the difference between my real and e-life has blurred.
These days my life on the internet is more happening than my life in real! Ahh I hate this.
My primary gmail account is not working properly and that has been more upsetting than anything else. Yahoo mail has come out with a new yahoo beta version which is a-la Microsoft Outlook.
I remember Tinni bhai had a more happening life on internet than in real life coz he used to spend most of his day online!
Perhaps this is how life is turning out to be for most of us. Nobody remembers our house addresses but most of us know each other's email address. My friends get an update about my life reading my blog rather than meeting up or talking with me.
I remember my bro got in touch with our neighbour's son when my bro moved to US, coz now they used to meetup online all the time though they rarely met each other at phagwara coz of busy schedules!
Times have truly changed.
What is the next level of technology?
Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Tuesday, October 10, 2006

just another day

Mausam,Hi!
You know what, something strange is happening, every passing day I am becoming more religious than ever. If it was the "moolmantar" and "lakh khushiyaa paatshaayiyaan" for a few days then now itz "Hey Ram"(Ram Dhun) by Jagjit Singh . Why this sudden transformation?
Everytime I hear "hey Ram" I am reminded of a time late in the evenings, when the temple near our house at phagwara used to play the song. I never bothered to care what it was, but last year in delhi when i was on my way to drop Shikhar at his place, I heard the song again and immediately I knew I wanted it.
I will be turning 26 tomorrow. Why am I not happy about it? I have never been fond of birthdays, but I guess earlier I used to be enthusiastic about it coz I had friends around and they were usually more excited about it than I was coz they thought I will be happy. But now that they are not around I can consider it to be just another day. I am more enthusiastic about Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan's birthday on 12th October than mine. His compositions have such a strong effect on listeners, I wish he was alive today.
I have switched off my cellphone since last few days and I do'nt intend to switch it on anytime soon.
Thanks to all my buddies for their wishes. I know you people really care and you are my biggest strength.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, October 07, 2006

Mool mantar

The Mool Mantar (also spelt Mul Mantra) is the most important composition contained within the Sri Guru Granth Sahib; it is the basis of Sikhism. The word Mool means main , root or chief and Mantar means magic chant or magic portion. Together the words Mool Mantar mean the Main chant or root verse. It’s importance is emphasised by the fact that it appears before the commencement of most of the Raags within the Sikh holy scripture.

Ik onkar - There is one God
Sat nam - The True name
Karta Poorakh - Creator of all
Nirbhau - He is without fear
Nirvair - He is without hate
Akal murat - He is omnipresent
Ajooni - He is beyond birth
Saibhang - He is self existent
Guparsad - He can be realised by the grace of the Guru

Today for the first time I read and tried to understand 20 pauris(Paragraphs) of Japji Sahib.
May God always be, with all.

I salute you Harbhajan Singh

Hey Mausam,
Have you followed the news of Harbhajan Singh, who was pulled up by SGPC, the apex religious body of the sikhs, for appearing in an advertisement with his hair open and untied?
Harbhajan Singh promptly apologised and asked the SGPC that it was inappropriate on their part to raise the issue in the media. Meanwhile the SGPC president Avtar Singh Makkar commented that Harbhajan should learn from english spinner Monty Panesar who despite being brought up abroad, promotes sikhism. To this Harbhajan commented that he should be compared not with Monty Panesar but with Yuvraj Singh and Gurdas Mann!
I am so glad that Harbhajan said so. Religion is a personal thing and these religious fanatics should not spread their version of faith on others just for their own selfish means. With the impending elections in punjab, the politicians who control SGPC( read Badal) thought it is time to focus on such religious matters to garner political mileage. When will these people change. Not to long ago I read this about SGPC clerics fighting with swords inside the Golden Temple and not too long ago SGPC suddenly realised that Vande Mataram was against their sentiments! Amarinder Singh is busy filling his coffers after Badal looted the state.
Who'z next in line in the coming elections? Not too long ago Punjab was the most prosperous state. Had it not been for these rascals we would have prospered even more. We need our a Chandrababu Naidu to bring accountability in every sphere. Badals and Amarinders, God is watching.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, October 06, 2006

..I just need to keep moving ahead...

There's something about this ad.I never get bored of it

Wednesday, October 04, 2006

African-American Jatts

Hey Mausam,
I have had this feeling ever since I have seen them, these african americans are so much similar to jatts. Believe it or not if you trace the history you will definitely find some link. We are so much alike.
African-americans love their hip-hop/reggae as much as we adore our Bhangra.(no wonder hip-hop-bhangra is a deadly mix these days).While a white guy will be quitely hearing his music on his ipod but an african american will be swinging with the song even if its from an ipod which reminds me so much of how I listen to music!
African-americans have an inclination of picking up a fight at a drop of a hat, which is absolutely similar to jatts.They are loud mouth, loud in their actions and considered unsophisticated by wordly standards which is exactly how jatts are perceived. African-americans love their bling and that is another similarity with jatts, as we see so many jatt boys all the time with gold khandaaz around their neck. Showing off, living life king size are some of the other common traits associated with both these communities. People avoid interacting with African americans just like they avoid interacting with jatts in india-"who knows when will they lose their mind!". African-americans love their Cadillac, burgers and guns as much as jatts love their jeeps,butterchicken and dunalis. Both communities prefer moving around in groups wherever they go,("how many white kids have you seen roaming around in a group, roaming for no definite purpose")
African americans are known for their fearless, I dont care attitude just like jatts are. So my African-american brothers, you remind me of home away from home!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, October 02, 2006

schools..Nitin...Dussehra...

Satshriakaal Mausam Kaur,
Finally I am getting into the groove of applying to the management schools. I was always intimidated by the whole "application process". The vast number of schools to choose from, the various programs, the strings attached with each school, I am getting a hang of, all of it now. It's still early days but I am sure by the time I will be done with my school selection, I will be in an excellent position to guide others.
I wish I was not a slow starter, I wish I could see things which were right in front of me. I wish I was more apt to change.
Nitin came from Atlanta to visit over the weekend. It was nice meeting up with him. He has'nt changed one bit as a person and I doubt if he ever will. It was nice to hear both his wonderful success stories and his miseries. I also realised that he is more emotional than I am. He also had a lot more to talk about, unlike me. Everybody around me, has this common complain that I do'nt talk much, I am still figuring out if that really is the case.
Hey and happy Dussehra, I miss the jalebi party we had in office last year.Until next time, have fun!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim Singh

Sunday, September 24, 2006

An evening with Pandit Jasraj

Hey Mausam!
Do you know who Pandit Jasraj is? If your response is ...ummm...well he is some classical music singer there is nothing wrong with that coz 4 hours ago I thought the same, but 4 stunning hours later I now realise that Pandit Jasraj is actually a magician who captivates his audience just by voice modulation.He does'nt need lyrics to his songs, he can sing a song for 45 mins by just singing "Aaaaaa...." and you won't even realise that he did'nt utter any other word. His voice mixes with the music of the harmonium so well that for a few seconds you don't realise if itz the harmonium or Pandit jasraj's voice that you are listening to, that is something truly exceptional. I thought there were just two ways that one can speak, a high pitch and a low pitch; the enormous range of voice modulation and the complete control over it was something that I have never seen before. Now I know what it means when people say that they were mesmerized by hearing Nusrat Fateh Ali Khan in concert.

I never thought classical music could have such an effect on me coz I never heard anything from this genre before. I was of the belief that classical music is "boring" and is telecasted on Doordarshan in the middle of the night when they know nobody would be hearing it , but today all of a sudden I have such a strong urge to watch that boring programme.
Pandit Jasraj is a living legend and just make sure that you make extra effort to get to hear him anytime you get a chance, infact grab the chance!
Giving Pandit Jasraj company on tabla was Anuradha Pal, a bright young lady who is a disciple of Ustad Zakir Hussain. Watch out for her she is amazing! and you just have to see her perform and you will instantly fall in love with the tabla ..tak dhin tha...
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Elusive 700, remained elusive

Dear Mausam,
Finally the anxity is over. I got rid of the Gmat. At the end of it, I am disappointed with the outcome. My scores in the practice test ranged from 550 to 690 so I had no clue what kind of score I will finally manage. I obviously wanted to avoid the embarassment of scoring below what I achieved the last time around so I wanted something in excess of 640. So God decided to tread the middle path and granted me a score of 660.
I wish I had not undertaken the whole exercise in the first place. I wonder what God was thinking when he granted me this score, was he thinking, "This guy does'nt deserve much, just coz he is so desperate to avoid getting less than 640, let me just give him a score, a touch better", or was he thinking "He's been hell-bent for a score in excess of 700, which he just does'nt deserve, there is no way he can get even near that score".
Why did'nt I get 700?
Was there a laxity in my effort of preparation or Gmat is the correct measure of one's mental capabilities ?I will like to believe the latter coz last time I didnt manage any great score either.
The only positive to come out of today's exercise was that I improved my percentile in english by 44 though my percentile in quantitative reduced by 13.
But I am glad the embarassment has been avoided and now itz time to move on and figure out where I land.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Don't worry Ajj Kaim, your score is good enough for you to avoid any college even remotely equal to Tangori (Though I doubt if there is any college in US which is even comparable to Tangori)

Thursday, September 21, 2006

.....

Dear Mausam,
For some reason I am not all that tensed-up anymore, maybe this is another of those typical mood-swings that I am so familiar with, but let me enjoy this tensionless moment. A few songs and a few orkut scrap messages later I am no more in a rush to anticipate about something I obviously have no control over. Whatz the max that can happen? <600. I am not used to scoring high marks to start with, so an average score is fine too.

kahi yeh toofan se pehley wala sannaatta toh nahi...
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Tuesday, September 19, 2006

Life is funny

Hey Mausam,
The preparation for GMAT has been a rollercoaster ride, the whole plethora of emotions which I have experienced has been unprecedented.I have gone through excitement, despair, anxity, disappointment and outrage over the past few days.
But the situation I find myself now is completely different from what I ever thought. The prospect of me scoring less than the score achieved last time around looks so real.How embarassing would that situation be if I get a score worse than what I achieved the first time! Few of the recent practice tests have completely ruined whatever little confidence I had. Though I have a feeling that I have improved from my previous preparation but somehow that feeling does'nt reflect in the scores. So now I am absolutely uncertain how Sunday will unfold.
Do you know anybody who scored worse in the improvement exam??? In case you dont, wait till sunday, you might just know one!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sunday, September 17, 2006

Back to normal

Satshriakaal Mausam,
I was in california at the start of this month.I surely had a fabulous time at that great place. The whole atmosphere in a wedding house is always so captivating;There always is a constant buzz around the house. I was in another world. But then, like all good things, it came to an end as soon as I landed back in Boston on the 5th.
As expected the reality of the impending GMAT stared at my face. So much to accomplish, so much to consummate and so little time. The target GMAT score of 700 became a one point agenda. Constant reminders to myself of "this is it!"," now or never!", " i wanna get this by all means" took itz toll and I went into a shell. A self enforced hibernation which for me is always accompanied by bad mood, depressing thoughts and general quiet behaviour. I have been so hell-bent about achieving the score of 700 that I lost focus of my own self.But somehow yesterday I realised, "Ajj Kaim, what you doing? This is not the way you want to live your life. You should just do whatever you think is right without worrying about the results and stop bothering Waheguruji by reminding him how important it is for you to get a score of 700. If he thinks that itz important for you to get that score he sure will grant that request.You should better live your days happily and enjoy this time,so just stop cribbing and start living".

So finally today morning, I got rid of the unkempt look and had my first shave after nearly 10 days and as the clean skin appeared from underneath, the thoughts became more clear. Every wipe of the razor blade reminded me of the promises I made to myself, not to ask any more favours from Almighty coz He has already given me enough. So here I am back from the mini-emotional turmoil. I still want a score of 700 and i am gonna work for it but it aint a question of life and death anymore. I hope I am right.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Tuesday, September 12, 2006

The reverse cycle of life

Dear Mausam,

A few days back Dhiraj sent me this wonderful article he came across in HT.

Thoughts of dying

The unfair thing about life is the way it ends. I mean, life is tough; it takes up a lot of your time. What do you get in the end of it? A death. I think the life cycle is all backwards. You should die first: start out dead; get it out of the way. You wake up in an old age home, feeling better every day. You get kicked out for being healthy; go collect your pension. Then, when you start work, you get a gold watch on your first day. You work 40 years until you're young enough to enjoy your retirement. You drink alcohol, you enjoy parties; you're generally promiscuous. (Hey, you've only got a few years left, what's the big deal?) And you get ready for High School. Then you go to primary school, you become a kid, you play; you have no responsibilities. And, finally, you become a baby. The last step, you spend your last nine months floating peacefully with luxuries like central heating, spa, room service on tap, larger quarters everyday and then... you finish off as an orgasm!

Interesting thought,isn't it?
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Wednesday, September 06, 2006

Get a life or die tryin

To Ajj Kaim,

The D-day is 24th Sept,this is the last chance.You are not helping yourself by not putting in your best effort.The countdown has begun.You don't wanna get mad at yourself on the evening of 24th sept for not trying enough.Nothing matters more than the task at hand.Just focus.A few days of concentrated hardwork is all that is required.You know itz not beyond you,itz just you have to put things in proper prespective.This is it.The ball is in your court.

from,
Ajj Kaim

Tuesday, September 05, 2006

Points to remember from Cali

Dear Mausam,
I sure had the time of my life at california. It often happens that when we anticipate a lot then things don't turn out to be all that great but this visit was different.

-Weddings in India are more fun.
-You just cannot make everybody happy at a wedding.
-Now I know the feeling when people say "I love my Nephew/Niece"
-Make sure you leave from the house of the wedding, the day after the wedding ends.
-Click a lot of pictures.
-Dont be late for any of the wedding ceremonies and make sure all of your close relatives are on time too.
-Learn wedding songs or Boliyan.
-Exercise a lot few days before the wedding to build stamina,coz you will be doing a lot of dancing at the wedding.
-I drove over 1000 miles in 5 days in 6 different vehicles as I became the designated driver.
-Meet as many people as possible, coz some of your rishtedaars know you well and you don't even recognise them!
Regards,
Ajj Kim

Monday, August 28, 2006

5 days of pure magic

Dear Mausam!
Two days from now I will be in another world...first BIG wedding in our family after a long long time. Had a few cousin sister's weddings but cousin brother's wedding gonna be a totally different experience and that too in one of the most beautiful place in the world, The Bay Area. I am so very excited. Rishtedaars coming from India, Australia, Canada, England and the US. I have been waiting for this occasion since over a year now. After this occasion the next big wedding would be Tinni's or P ushwaz's.
Californiaaaa I am coming....
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, August 26, 2006

Nightmares..

Dear Mausam,
Now it has happened for the 5th time. Generally I forget about dreams and nightmares as soon as I wake up, but not about this one. The circumstances have been different each time but the central idea and the result has been the same. I have heard that dreams and nightmares are related to the subconscious mind in one way or the other but the reason behind these incidences is difficult to understand. The image of the first nightmare is clearly etched in my mind and I have woken up remembering about it on several occasions.
"I am standing at a railway crossing and I see a train coming from a long distance and is approaching at a high speed. Just as the train is about 100 meter away from the railway crossing a frail old man jumps on the track,with his face towards the approaching train, he bends on his knees and spreads out his hands and starts shouting, as if he is challenging the fast approaching train.
The train blows the horn but is too close to actually stop and within a flash of a second the train runs over the poor man and I see the old man's body crushing apart by the impact of the train. It takes about 5 long seconds for the train to pass and leave behind smeared body of a fellow human being. Blood marks are spread all around the ground and everyone is left speechless. Slowly the noise of the train fades away. My eyes are glued at the same spot where not too long ago the old man was and just then I see the skeleton of the old man gathering together. There are strains of blood all over the skeleton but no skin and no tissues,just bones and blood. The skeleton bends the same way, in the same direction and shouts in the same way just like the old man was sitting and shouting and thatz when I suddenly wake up!"
What is it about train accidents and me, almost all my nightmares have train accidents as their centralised theme. Head-on collision in different settings has been a nightmare on other occasions. The images of various bogeys(cars) of a train getting derailed , the cries of helpless people who are victims of these accidents and the visual impact of the catastrophic disaster when two trains crash head-on, never fail to wake me up and leave a sinking feeling.
There got to be some relation...
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, August 19, 2006

Uncommon commonsense

Dear Mausam,
"Common sense is not so common" is how a popular quote goes, every now and then we see/hear examples, which strengthen this saying, time and again.
Latest example being the sea water suddenly turing"sweet" all across Mumbai and on coasts of Gujrat .
The sea water as we all know is salty and it suddenly turning "sweet" has generated so much curiosity that people are specially thronging the dirty,muddy, garbage filled beaches to taste the miracle of God! News channels have shown people filling the dirty,muddy water in glasses and drinking it.
Scientists say that the sudden phenomenon of sea water turning "sweet" can be attributed to various factors, the one and most shocking is: because in places like mumbai a lot of sewerage is directly dumped into the sea, so that might be the reason that after mixing with the sea water, the water is not salty anymore but becomes sweet instead.
ahhgg..How nasty can that be! I don't even intend to mention what all people might have drunk. Just imagine sewerage of mumbai.
Few years back the whole of india was astonished when one fine day,Ganeshji decided to drink milk, well thatz what majority of the people started believing and there were queues in front of temples all around the country with people trying to feed the Holy diety some milk. Gallons of milk went down the drain as people kept offering it for a couple of days. The frenzy about Ganeshji drinking milk was unprecedented.
Why it happens that perfectly sensible people lose all sense of logic at times and end up doing something so much ridiculous as this.
I hope the people who drank the sweet water have enough resistance in them not to fall critically sick.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, August 14, 2006

Few good men

Satshriakaal Mausam,
I have been thinking of writing about the greatest philanthropy act of our times since the news broke out but somehow never wrote about it.
You must have questioned your friends as to "what they will do if they became the richest person in the world?","what will they do with all the money?". A mansion by the beach, a tour of the world, a fleet of ferraris etc etc are the most common answers.
Quite recently two of the world's richest men Bill Gates and Warren Buffet(85% of his total wealth) joined hands in one of the world's biggest philanthropy acts by pooling in their combined savings of $ 60 billion i.e 60,000,000,000 dollors(forget about converting into Rs coz it will take you ages to count that kind of money!).
That money will be used to find cure for HIV/AIDS and eradicating poverty and curable diseases.
Both these men have set an example of what an ideal role model should be like. I remember an article in which I read that Bill Gates and his wife Melinda Gates visit all around the world and personally find out as to how the money donated by their foundation is being used and if the money donated is being used for the reason for which it was donated.
Bill Gates has made it a mission to find cure for AIDS. He has resigned from all day to day workings of Microsoft to concentrate on his foundation. Such generosity, such compassion for the less previlged is difficult to find.
Mr Bill Gates and Mr Warren Buffet you have won a million hearts by your noble act.May God always be with you. Thanks for showing us the right way to live life.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sunday, August 13, 2006

itz a sunday

Hey Mausam,I don't remember when was the last time I woke up at 11,with no one in house and i was by myself.Hurray!
Time to laze out of bed, no alarm clock to bother,no time lines to meet. When was the last time I had a sunday like this? maybe in delhi.
Lets play some music now, make some breakfast and get on with the routine
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Tuesday, August 08, 2006

Imagine

Dear Mausam,
Imagination is one of the most intriguing things associated with human mind.
Imagination is described as "The formation of a mental image of something that is neither perceived as real nor present to the senses." (Source www.dictionary.com)
I have always been introspective about everything associated with me.Itz another thing that I don't really reach a conclusive result but I tend to self reflect a lot. I think about the choices I made, the way my thinking has shaped and various other things.
I think i will be doing more of it now when I will be applying to various business schools coz they will ask me to summarise my life in an essay!
I remember when I was 11-12 years old in early nineties I used to imagine what kind of person will i become when i will be 23-24 years old! How will I look like? What profession will I be in? How will my relationships with others be? Will the people around me be any different?
Itz funny when I think about such things now, coz i still don't have answers to most of the doubts I had then. Now when I imagine about 10 years from now, I feel so strongly about my life turning upside down in 10 years from now just like I felt 10 years ago? What will I be doing 10 years down the line? August 8th, 2016! Will I be around that time? What would I be doing? Maybe I will be married by then? Will I be? I maybe in a sick job which I will be unable to get out of? How will I handle that? Will i be more confident or even more critical of my own abilities?
10 years from now, the world would be so different, who could have imagined 10 years ago how the internet will turn our lives around. So much has changed, so much will change. I wish I could look into the future and find out what itz gonna be like? imagination is such a wonderful thing.
But the best thing for me still remains that people who were around me 10 years ago are still around, just a phone call away, as always. I hope that remains the case 10 years down the line.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim



Sunday, August 06, 2006

my conversation with Balraj Singh

Dear Mausam,

I spoke with my former roommate, dear friend Balraj Singh(alias Sarpanch) over the weekend. It was our first telephonic conversation in months. Our 10 mins of talk was more of catching up with what is going on in each other's life. Balraj Singh explained his continuous struggle to attain his milestone. His stoic resolve to face upheavals and problems was as inspirational as always. During our conversation Balraj Singh said something so simple and logical that it has stuck in my mind completely. Balraj Singh said that he has learned that "bhukh naal maro par kadeh dukh naal naa maro" (die of hunger but never die of sadness).
So just be happy!

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Wednesday, August 02, 2006

I owe it to you...

Satshriakaal Mausam,
You taught me how to postpone things every now and then,
You helped me to figure out how to delay the most arduous of tasks,
You showed me by example how to extend the deadlines beyond the last date,
You made me realise that there always, Always exists one more chance for survival,
You showed me how to keep the spirits high when people around you consider you no good,
You displayed how much fun it is to fight back,
You made me realise how much fun it is to be an underdog,
You taught me that patience and humbleness are the two most important things when the chips are down.
I owe it to you...

The deadlines have been breached again.Time is flying and I have a lot of catching up to do.
Ajj Kaim do you realise the gravity of the situation? Do you know what this time means for your future? Buckle up dude!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

An Appeal

I apologise on behalf of all the people in US, each and every citizen of this country really regrets electing Bush as the president, again.
Some of us were swayed by his sweet talks, others just did'nt care, coz John Kerry was'nt all too great either. But now we realise that Kerry would never have been as barbaric as Bush is.
In 2000, Bush won thanks to his brother in florida, but then how he managed to win again in 2004 is still a mystery. believe me nobody likes him in this country.
We hate the biased reporting on CNN and Fox News. We condemn the innocent killings in Afghanistan, Iraq, Palestine, Kashmir and Lebanon. We, people in USA don't have anything against people from any part of the world.
We don't want any fight, we pray for peace just like anybody else. But what can we do when idiots like George Bush are making decisions for us.
We hate him as much as you do. I know the pain you feel is beyond imagination. It sure is frustating and depressing to see your own people dying everyday, day in and day out for no fault of theirs.
But you know what... Bush, Olmert, Putin, Hezbollah, Hamas are all the same.
They are just interested in satisfying their own personal interests and we people are mere pawns.
Ever since the Israel-lebanon erupted I have been thinking about it.
Who will eventually pay for all the massive massacre?
I hope Waheguru/God/Allah doesn't let any more innocent people to suffer and I just pray that justice prevails in this world.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, July 28, 2006

I just realised...

Dear Mausam,
I take a train ride to reach my job every day and I have to switch two trains everyday to reach my destination.I just realised that the monthly pass for my two train rides is 44$ and 118$ which in all becomes $162 and if I convert into Rs it becomes 7128Rs for a monthly train pass!
a Hindi movie ticket for 2 costs 21$ which is 928Rs.!
Our monthly rent for a one room apartment in Cambridge is 1400$ which is 61,600Rs per month!
So all you fellow indians vying to land in US, don't just imagine the earnings, spare a thought for the expenses!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Thursday, July 27, 2006

Mr Know it All

Dear Mausam,
Itz 11:40 in the morning and I have so much stuff to take care of. But I had to write this, I had to share my joy.
Just now i received a call, that my immediate Boss is no longer working in the company!
Oh what a relief. This is my 2nd real job and my experience with Bosses has been amazing before I met Jasdeep alias Jason alias Diamond alias Jay!
Now, Mr Jay immigrated to US about 4 years back on a Business visa and then forgot to go back to India. Success came to him easily because I think he was a hard worker and I think the success was too much for him to handle. No matter how much success you attain itz the attitude which has to be right.

He treated me as an idiot from a 3rd world country. He never used to explain me anything but expected me to know everything. I used to hate him so much when he used to say,"Ajj Kaim, tujhe yeh bhi nahi aata",I know how I used to control myself not to answer back!
He used to pester me as to why I dont ask him questions and when I did, he used to mock at the standard of the question. His clear dislike for me was evident. When he thought about acting friendly he used to talk about strippers and girl friends.He used to say "Ajj Kaim, you should get a life, pataaofy a gori, get drunk and have fun" and then also offered to help me find a gori coz "I was so sissy". He was a perfect example of what a Boss should not be. A complete contrast from my last Boss, Amit Garg. Who used to support, advise, encourage and then support even more every employee.
Maybe I gave Jay too much respect to start with, but it didnt take me long to change my attitude and my clear disdain about his talks. Okay I hated from the start his pony-tail with beard, his wearing sneakers and baggies and asking fellow employers to wear formals, his totally unprofessional way of dealing with us and thinking of himself as Mr Know-it-all.
But finally the misery is over. I am independently managing things and now I know where to look for help in case I need. Game on!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Wednesday, July 26, 2006

Yo-America : observations

Dear Mausam,
I think I hav'nt lived in US long enough to stop comparing things here as to how things are in India. As things stand now, I study,analyse every activity that goes on and then think of how it works in India.I wonder if I will ever stop doing this, maybe a part of me is still in india.Itz not that "I love my india", I think itz just that I have lived there long enough to develop a sense of belonging for that place.
Observation 1: In US,trains do get delayed or leave from a different platform than the one they were supposed to, just like in india,but only rarely.Incase they do, the railway authorities will apologise and refund your ticket, they will also arrange for a free taxi ride in case you insist.
Observation 2: The trains are not jampacked,very rarely they are.In case there is some vacant seat then people do'nt rush to grab it! They just quitely offer it to the other person.
Observation 3: Indians have a natural tendency to stare, to observe. I never used to realise it in india but here whenever I am travelling some place, I am the only one staring, all the other people will be busy pursuing their own thing, most of the people listen to the ipods while travelling, those who don't, have a novel in their hand. Rarely will you find a dud like me, staring at people for no reason at all.
Observation 4: If you cross an american on a street, he/she will always greet you with a smile, some may even say "How you doin","whazzup" or something, but if you ever encounter a desi while travelling, there is no way that they gonna smile and will avoid any kind of eye contact. But they will still stare at you when they think you are not looking at them!
Observation 5: No matter how hard I try to pick up or pretend to speak in an american accent, the americans will immediately figure out that i am an indian, even on the phone. So I have decided to speak english as I used to speak in india.
Observation 6: Following directions is so difficult, coz the roads are not named as we have them in india, there is no Karnal Bypass or Kasturba Gandhi marg (Delhi), Vidya path or Lake wali road (as in chandigarh) Every thing here has a number with a direction. So you will say, take the 101 south, and then take the 47 east, go 4 miles, take the next exit to 65 west etc. I am still getting used to it, coz right now I am unable to figure out where north-east-west-south are!
Observation 7: Many things in US work the opposite way to how we have them in india. people drive cars in opposite directions, switches switch-on the 'wrong' way, people use the last name before their first name
Observation 8: Hair oil is a concept which is alien to americans! If I don't use hair oil my hair look so unkempt, why are my hair so addicted to the hair oil?anybody got a clue?
Observation 9:People in US love Motorola Razr, Ipods, Israel, the american flag,discussing the weather, Baseball. Most of the people I have met hate George Bush but I just can't figure out how did that ass got elected President the 2nd time (perhaps I will write a detailed post sometime later about Mr Bush)
Observation 10:Ahh I still hav'nt figured out how people manage the "daily chores" without water! You know what I mean, I mean there are a few things which you cannot manage with paper! right?
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

P.S.: It has turned out to be such a terrible post. But I guess this is the best I could write.

Monday, July 24, 2006

Twins as President-Prime minister!

Hey Mausam,
You know the President and Prime minister of Poland are twin brothers!
Jaroslaw Kaczynski and Lech Kaczynski hold the top post in their country and critics don't rate them too highly.
The only other time I remember two family members hold the two highest posts in their country was in nineties,when a mother-daughter were Prime minister-president in Sri Lanka.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, July 21, 2006

Adjusting woes of a different kind

Dear Mausam,

Sometime back I received a call from my bro that he will not be able to accompany me to the party which we were planning to go later in the evening coz of some prior engagements and I cannot go for the party by myself. You ask me, why? Read on...
I also happened to read another blog and that's where I got inspired to write this post.

I have been an ardent dance enthusiast ever since i remember. Good music has always worked for me as any intoxicating liquor or drug. I have never known any stronger stimulant which can have a similar effect like a dose of good music.
Performing bhangra with Birdi at our rented accomodation in chandigarh in the middle of the night was an out of the world experience, all the crazy nights spent at youth festivals with friends were once in a lifetime events, dancing away to glory at various get-togethers had a charm of itz own, clubbing at Aerrizona(disc in chd) with Naina and getting compliments from complete strangers for our dancing skills was truly memorable. Dring, Sleep, Eat music.That is me.
Now the problem lies in the fact that like few other things associated with my life, my passion for dancing is also oblivious to my folks (blogging being the other one!). They come from the old school where dancing in the clubs was a taboo and still is. "Club-aan vich sirf biggrey hoye log hee jaande hai" is what they would say(ThankGod I don't drink or smoke). How will they react if they find out that dancing in a club is something i really like and look forward to, always.
The problem has been that I have stayed away from home in india itself way too long. So things which were not okay for an 18yr old 7 years ago, are still not okay for a 25 year old even today.
The other day I freaked out when my mom said that I write well. I still havnt figured out who told her that and what was she referring to! And obviously she does'nt read my blog coz otherwise she would have figured out how well some of the other bloggers write and how terrible i am at writing!
I can't ask her to be cool about things like clubbing now coz if I do that now, she might think I have changed and I want to act like the americans! Which is just not the case, I am too headstrong to change myself just coz people around me are different, and I am not in awe with the whole america thing at all.
So where does that leave me with my passion? Well, I don't have to tell everything to my folks,right? Zip It for now, as there is always a next time!

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Tuesday, July 18, 2006

what you don't know doesn't hurt you.

Hey Mausam,

Have you been following the news about Israel?
When I was in india I used to often hear about crises in middle east, I had heard that there was some crises involving Israel,hamas,palestine, lebanon but I did'nt knew who was on which side.
I sure was curious but never really bothered about what all was happening in that part of the world. maybe I had enough dose of violence news thanks to the never ending kashmir crises, naxalites in assam, or the LTTE down south.
On the international front iraq was always the focus.
But since I have been in US, the tensions in the middle east have gathered all the limelight.
Now that I have a brief idea of what all is happening, let me just shed some light.
Israel is the world's only jewish state and is fighting with all the muslim states bordering it on all sides since forever now.
Israel is backed by US in most of itz economical and political endeavors.
In the current turmoil, Hezbollah, an extrimist political party which is in power in Lebanon, along with Hamas,which is another extremist political group of Palestine, captured a couple of israeli soldiers by venturing into israeli territory.
Since the capture, which happened a week back, israel has been shelling and killing innocents,extrimists,civilians in the various cities of Lebanon and Palestine.
Israel believes that this is the only way to deal with such Iran backed terrorists who intend to distabalize itz country by spreading violence.
Meanwhile the G8 summit in St. Pittsburg has been condemning the israeli and hezbollah actions but nobody has taken any firm stand.

The images of violence against innocent civilians of lebanon is frightening,the capital city of Beirut has been reduced to rubble,the international airport and all the major bridges have been completely destroyed.
Israelis have their own side of sob stories and itz so difficult to figure out who is the culprit and who is the victim.But considering the track record of US supported wars, it seems like Lebanon is the victim.
Ahh, why is there so much violence in this world...

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

P.S.:The headline on front page of Hindustan Times read "G8 Outraged by Terror in mumbai". Whereas since the last 3 days I hav'nt read even a single article in US papers about their being even a mention of Terror in mumbai at the G8 summit!
Iss duniya da taan Rabb hee rakhaa...

Sunday, July 16, 2006

Nusrat...

Dear Mausam,
Was listening to the song "Gham hai ya khushi hai tu" by Nusrat.
I remember this song was being played in my hostel a few years back and I was listening to this song and I wasnt sure in which room was this song being played and I rushed to the floors below to figure out where it was being played but I couldnt find it. One of the best songs by Nusrat.

Gham hai ya khushi hai tu....meri zindagi hai tu...meri zindagi hai tu...
Aafaton ka dour maain...Aafaton ka dour maain...Chain ki ghari hai tu....meri zindagi haii tu...
Gham hai ya khushii hai tu.....meri zindagi hai tu...
meri raat ka charagh.....meri raat ka charagh....meri neend bhi hai tu....meri zindagi haii tu...
Gham hai ya khushii hai tu....meri zindagi hai tu....
Maain khizaan ki sham hon....Rutt bahaar ki hai tu....meri zindagi hai tu....meri zindagi hai tu...
Gham hai ya khushii hai tu.....meri zindagi hai tu.....meri zindagi hai tu...
Doston ka darmiaan..Doston ka darmiaan....Wajeh dosti hai tu.....meri zindagi hai tu...
Gham ha ya khushii hai tu....meri zindagi hai tu....meri zindagi hai tu...
meri sari Umr maain.....Aik hi kami hai tu...meri zindagi haii tu...meri zindagi hai tu...
Gham hai ya khushii hai tu....meri zindagi hai tu...meri zindagi hai tu...
Maain tu wo nahi rha....Maain tu wo nahi raha....Haan magar wohi hai tu...meri zindagi hai tu...meri zindagi hai tu...
Gham hai ya khushii hai tu....meri zindagi hai tu.....meri zindagi hai tu...
Nasir iss dayaar maain.....kitna ajnabi hai tu....meri zindagi hai tu.....meri zindagi hai tu...
Gham hai ya khushii hai tu....meri zindagi hai tu.....meri zindagi haii tu...

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

The procrastinator in me

Dear Mausam,

Throughout the week I excuse myself of not studying with complete concentration coz I look forward to/hope to study on sunday. On sunday I find alternate ways of indulging myself in things which give temporary satisfaction.
About half hour back I was sitting on my study desk, trying to make use of the only holiday that I get in the whole week.With the book right infront of me the urge of picking up the laptop,lying on the next table, was irresistable ("Lets just check the email for a minute and then I will study again", "Oh lets just check the news on rediff- Breaking news,sports news,G8 summit news,movie review","oh today is sunday I got to read Vir Sanghvi's article in hindustan times"). And thatz it. I succumbed again to the temptation. I can very well see another sunday going down the drain.
Ahh now what, tomorrow again is another day, monday morning while on my train ride I will criticize myself for wasting another day and with renewed vigor will look forard to another week ("This week I sure am gonna work my ass off and study coz that is a priority")...and then the cycle repeates.
I am tired of this, I am tired of procrastinating. Checking emails, watching matches are all excuses. Ajj Kaim you are missing out on the Big Picture.
Time to get off the internet. Enough of ranting!Back to books.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Thursday, July 13, 2006

Are Mumbai/Delhi really that resilient ?

Dear Mausam,
The recent multiple Bomb blasts in mumbai has sent shock waves all across the world. 200 deaths plus 700 injuries meant that atleast 1000 families have been affected by the latest massacre. The images of blood, mangled bodies, grief have shaken every soul who has seen them across the world on television. It hurts, really hurts to see so much of human pain and the obvious question one thinks of is why?why did this happen? what sin those poor souls commited?
Since the time the news started coming in everybody has been talking about the never-say-die spirit of mumbaikers and how people in mumbai have learnt to get on with life and face the terror head-on. Similar thoughts were discussed after the bomb blasts in delhi last year.But I wonder are mumbai/delhi really that resilient?
In case you have ever visited or lived in mumbai or delhi you can imagine how difficult it is to survive in those cities. Specifically in mumbai the commuter train, where the blasts happen, is the lifeline of the city. It is impossible for middle class/lower middle class people to choose an alternate source of travel coz there is none that exists. They cant afford to travel miles from one end of the city to another on their personal vehicles. They cannot afford to stay at home day in and day out just in fear of the bomb blasts.They have to go to their work, everyday, they have to commute if they have to survive.I'm sure each person who uses the public transport system has a constant fear in their heart. In every train ride their mind is under constant fear of what might happen. But alas, do they have a choice?
Yes, leave the city and go to their ancestral village and pursue whatever job they can find, putting their life and their children's career in jeopardy.

Can terrorism be countered in Mumbai/Delhi?
The population of mumbai is more than the poplutaion of Australia but australia is 16,000 times bigger than mumbai! With such a large population is it possible to keep a check on terrorism? I think not, atleast not by the method our leaders are trying to use. We just cannot search every individual walking into a bus station/railway station. We just cannot check every bag that people have with them.(in case you have a doubt just visit any public transportation place in these cities).
When 9/11 happened Mr Bush addressed the nation on the next day and he said "We will hunt them down......Make no mistake, the United States will hunt down and punish those responsible for these cowardly acts"
When Russian diplomats were attacked in Iraq Mr Vladmir Putin issued his special forces "A license to kill" those who attacked the diplomats.
When two of Israel's soldiers were captured by Hamas extremists, Israel attacked the Hamas govt and made the leaders pay for their error.
These are the kind of statements we want our leaders to deliver. Atleast project that they mean business but indian leaders have always been defensive, talking about peace when they very much know the enemy doesnt understand this language! The day after the bomb blast Mr Manmohan Singh addressed the nation and the statement he made was, "nobody can make india kneel....we stand united...we will not let them win...." blah blah blah. We allowed the infiltrators the Pakistan-Occupied-Kashmir to call their own and we couldnt do anything even after defeating them in 3 wars and in Kargil. We are a weak nation. Itz time to wake up and truly be a super-power. Itz time to show the world what we can do. Are Manmohans, Pranab Mukherjees ,Sonias, Chidambrams, Shivraj Patils of india listening????
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, July 10, 2006

We all carry around so much pain in our hearts. Love and pain and beauty. They all seem to go together like one little tidy confusing package. It's a messy business, life. It's hard to figure--full of surprises. Some good. Some bad. - Henry Bromel

Saturday, July 08, 2006

How much you value life?

Hey Mausam,
Today while going through the newspaper I read a news about an American guy, Ray Ducharn, who got paralysed from waist while running in the Spain's famous "Running of the Bull" race. I am sure you must have seen the images on television of, a number of rampaging bulls running after people in the narrow twisting streets of Pamplona ,Spain.
Every year dozen's of people get seriously injured in this crazy game.Infact 25 people have died over the years playing the same sport. Tourists visit this city from far off places just for the kicks! I can understand people being fanatical about sports, movie stars or people doing crazy things to make it to the Guinness Book of records but I cannot understand why someone will put their life at such a high risk for a few minutes of adrenalin rush!
Do people not at all care about this life? The thought of "what if..." never occurs to them, ever, while they are pulling such a stunt? The guy in question,Ray, is a 31 year old banker from NY with Bank of America,what will he do for the rest of his life? will he ever regret this act? how will his family handle this tragedy?
People die for all such strange reasons everyday. Don't they have anything better to do with their life if they do'nt love themselves?
Die for the rights of the poor, die fighting for the truth, Die for what you believe in. Die for a reason for us to feel proud of you. Life is way too precious please do'nt give it up so easily.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Wednesday, July 05, 2006

Celebrations for the 4th of July

Dear Mausam,

4th of july is the day celebrated as the Independence day in USA. On this day in 1776, 13 American states declared independence from the British rule. (hey, USA was colonised by Britishers, then why is it not part of the commonwealth countries??? plz let me know if someone knows about it)
For me the significance of this day was that I had an off from work and I could watch the Italy-Germany game. Which Italy handsomly won and made it to the world cup final after 12 years.
Anyways,in the evening I wanted to tag along with my bro to watch the firecrackers which were the major highlight of the celebrations associated with this day, but then I thought I am better off sticking at home.(therez no point going to watch firecrackers, am i not tired of all the firecrackers we burn/burst on diwali since kids?)
But then my bro coaxed me to go with him and then reluctantly at 9:30 pm I decided to go along. All the roads and subways were filled with a sea of people and it seemed the whole city had decided to walk towards the Charles river . The city of Boston has a river Charles which runs, right through the city.With the background of the downtown Boston and Charles river in the foreground it was an ideal place for viewing the firecrackers. There were people all over and it seemed to be such a huge "mela"(only difference being that there were no beggars and not many roadside vendors, another difference was that people were dressed in casuals unlike in India where people choose a "mela" to showcase their best/bright outfits).
The firecracker show was to start at 10:30(itz funny, If I was in india, i would have written,"..the show was to start around 10:30" but here itz taken for granted that the show will start at the scheduled time). After figuring out the place to stand with the best view we started waiting for the show to begin and at exact 10:30 the magic began...
The sight which I saw was absolutely remarkable.I never knew or realised that the experience of fire-crackers could be so different. Even the music which was playing in the background was choreographed with the fire crackers. The colour combinations , the various shapes and the various forms were seen to be believed. There were firecrackers in the form of blossoming flowers ,showering of colours, a burst of combinations in various designs. I wish I had a master's in english language so that I could explain the spectacle in a better way. the magic continued for 25 minutes and each design was better than the previous, it seemed as if I was in an another world.Oh what a pleasant sight it was. The onlookers told us that this was the best show that they had ever seen in life and it sure was once in a lifetime experience. Diwali crackers seemed waste of money and time coz I saw the real thing. Check this link as it showcases what all happened on the memorable day. I wish I had taken the camera along but I wont miss this opportunity the next time.
I already know where I will be on 4th of July 2007, make sure you join me in celebrating the glorious day of american independence!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, July 03, 2006

Back in the days...

Dear Mausam,
The other day I was at work and sometime around afternoon, Neha called and I told her that I was having lunch and then Neha asked as to what I was eating coz she knows how often I have cribbed about not many options for veggies in US, I said that I am eating paranthas which I had brought along from home.
Neha said "What! Paru you bring along a tiffin to work???". Well I said, yes. She reminded me of the time way back in school(6th-8th grade) when I used to hardly ever bring lunch boxes to school coz back then I thought bringing food from home was something very unfashionable. And I being one of the cool ones hardly ate anything at school.
Back then not only were we acting cool by not bringing stuff to school but also we wanted to use the "Recess Period" as a games period and play football with a rubber ball!!!
Now my mom used to pack paranthas for me even in those days, itz another story that I never ate any. Coming back home I couldnt confess to her that I didnt eat anything at all, so I used to collect all the paranthas in an almirah. In a few months the almirah was full of paranthas and it was stinky and thats how I mom found about my this "little mischief". She sure gave me hard time for my this blunder and a constant reminder about this incident for the next few years.
Itz not that I stopped acting cool after that, I devised other ways, asking my not-so-cool friends to eat my lunch, or eating my food after the school ended.But the coolness remained intact ;-)

The clock has really turned back for me.I bring food from home (and eat it too), leave home at a particular time, reach back at predefined time and agree to all the rules my mom wants to impose! just like back in the days, College time of leisure is truly over:-)
I think after coming to US I have become more desi, I prefer listening to punjabi/hindi songs more often whereas in india, english songs were my staple diet.Lets see what next is in store.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sunday, July 02, 2006

Are you looking for a tech job in US?

Dear Mausam,
How much do you lie?
How do you decide your limit i.e. "I can lie about this but not about this"?

In my search for a technical job I started off with the usual mode of finding a job i.e. uploading my resume to various job sites, forwarding my resume to my bro's friends, going through the newspaper classifieds about various job openings. But all this didnt result in any great success coz of my limited technical expertise.
Somebody suggested that I should get in touch with consultants who train you for a couple of weeks and then place you in some big companies. Well I had heard similar stories in India too but couldnt imagine people getting placed for salaries in excess of 55K just by a couple of weeks training. Reluctantly I also decided to join the bandwagon and got in touch with few consultants through Sulekha.com. Well the response from these consultants was overwhelmingly encouraging. And then I started understanding the modus operandi of the technical field in US.

The US technical market is flooded by indians (South indians and andhra pradeshiz. I think punjabiz still prefer Truck, taxi and the medical profession). Every consultant i had a chance to speak with had a distinctly south indian accent. Now I found out that these consultants train you on a particular skill set for a few weeks (infact they train fo a few weekends, so itz generally 4-5 days and thatz it) and then they arrange for your interview with some "big shot client".
If you get selected then you work in the "big company" as an employee of your trainer and your work is on project basis and these projects are of 3, 5 months or a year's duration. The catch lies in the "big company" paying you not directly but through the trainer. And these trainers are the ones who exploit! They promise you a moon but when they have to pay you itz generally peanuts (not all trainers are the same though) The trainers hold your pay until you start working for them on a new project. They don't even pay for the time period between the new and the old project, and this time peiod sometimes extends into months.
Now this is not the REAL problem. Problem lies in the lies!(is this a grammatically correct sentence?) Aseem, a friend of my bro, suggested that the trainers generally make changes to your resume to suit the clients requirement and before joining I should make sure that I am comfortable with that. Well the trainer who trained me for a couple of days and had scheduled an interview for me also said the same thing, that he will make some changes in the resume to satisfy the requirement of the client. So while forwarding the resume to the end client he also mailed a copy of my new-updated resume to me.
I had a shock of my life when I saw what all was written in there. The only thing I could relate with my resume was my name. Other than that all was greek to me! I had'nt even heard about most of the skills sets written there. That resume meant that I had a 7 years work ex in US and I worked in chicago,washington, boston on various projects. When I asked him, "Sir how am i gonna clear the interview?", he said "just say anything, make up things but sound confident you will sail through because your english is good"!
I am no Harishchandra but I can't lie so blatantly. I mean my truth quotient will not allow me to be such a big lier. He even asked me to conceal my visa status. During my subsequent discussions with other people I found that all this was a norm and itz only the indians who practise this. The poor goras believe in trust but as itz often said "Assi jithe jaida Punjab bana laida", this saying is true for every indian. Why do we believe in doing thing the wrong way? I am still wondering why is this nationwide scandal not out in the open? fake resumes are a norm in US, so next time if someone says "my son is working in a technology company in US", cross-checking their resume wont be that bad an idea.
I am glad I didnt opt about accepting the lie maybe coz I knew I had other options. Some people are not as lucky as I am.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Thursday, June 29, 2006

Blogs that I read....

Dear Mausam,
How are things with you? I am completely into my routine these days and I think I made a right decision by not opting for a technical position coz the kind of job I am doing now helps me to interact with people and that is something that I am a better at, compared to the technical roles.
Though I hav'nt learned all the skills related to this job but still when people come in and say that you are so nice compared to those guys at Chestnut Hill (that is where the nearest Verizon store is) than that really is very comforting.
Only thing required now is a little more attention at job, coz lately I have been reading a lot of blogs by people. Seriously Blacky is always upto something and I started reading his blog not too long ago. I also came across a blog by a PhD student called Ipanema , some of the stuff she writes is very good. Lately I have been hooked on to Smiling kurri's blog she has a whole series of posts about her experience about ladka dekhney ka process which is so entertaining and addictive. I am not too sure if itz her writing style or the interesting topic but the end result is very good.I wonder if she will be able to retain interest of the readers after she is exhausted with her stories. A bunch of guys and gals from chandigarh have been contributing a lot in their blog which I read every now and then. Tinni bhai writes not too often but sometimes I understand the stuff he writes otherwise its usually beyond me! Jot never finds time to write something(and I keep wondering what keeps her busy!) . Jot's friend writes such beautiful and emotional blogs that if I was just a little bit more sensitive then I would have definitely started crying while reading her posts. Gag'z also had started blogging but somehow never blogged after the initial burst. Nimrat has revamped the blog and I keep checking it time and again.
So many blogs! no wonder I always keep imagining where do I waste my time. Now i know the answer.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, June 26, 2006

why?

Dear Mausam,
Why we never stop comparing our life with the life of others,always wondering why others are so blessed?
Why we think that God gave others so much, compared to what He gave us?
Why when we face problems they tend to seem the most difficult problems?
Why do we wish to exchange our life with the life of others?
Why does it seem that nobody can even remotely understand the turmoil we are going through and the stress we are in, ever?
Why we always question our decisions, our choices and our judgements?
Why does the time seems to stand still when we are under stress?
Why can't we ever find solutions to problems?
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sunday, June 25, 2006

Learn to say no

Hey Mausam how are things with you? When will it stop raining in Boston dear, I am already tired of carrying the umbrella everywhere i go!
Does saying "No" comes easy to you? Since my growing up years I have been trying to learn the art of using this word but I hav'nt been successful as yet. Whenever I manage to say "NO!" then it always is accompanied by rudeness, bluntness,awkwardness and tactlessness. As a result the damage is excessive. How and when will I learn to be diplomatic. When will i stop being "too direct" while using this word.
I know that if you think somebody is gonna feel bad about you not agreeing with what they want you to do, then they sure will feel bad, but if you think in your mind that it is absolutely okay for you to say no, then others just wont feel bad! But why do'nt I ever implement this learning.
Do you i make any sense at all???Time to get on with the day...
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Thursday, June 22, 2006

calling 911 from cellphone?

Satshriakaal Mausam,
I always wondered back in india what would happen if I had to call at 100 (i.e. emergency number) from my cellphone. Will my call go through?or would i have to dial 011 100 if i am in delhi or 0172-100 if i am in chandigarh. I really couldn't think of any logical answer to it.but now that I am in US, I thought what would happen if I have to call 911 from my cellphone in case of emergency? Say I bought my cellphone from Boston and I travel to california and I make an emergency call from Cali, will I be connected with "Boston office of 911", or "Cali office of 911"?
well the answer was easy to find considering everything in US is thoroughly documented so I googled for my specific question and this is what I found out http://firstaid.about.com/od/callingforhelp/bb/cell911.htm
I am still wondering what would happen if I call 100 from my cellphone in india? can anybody shed some light here.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Wednesday, June 21, 2006

Melissa Theuriau..wow!

Dear Mausam,
Dear Mausam, I am sure you must have seen the picture of Melissa Theuriau as a forwarded e-mail sometime back coz it was widely circulated.In case you hav'nt then let me tell you that she is a french newsreader for a news channel called LCI in France. You can find more about her here at http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Melissa_Theuriau ,She sure looks awesome.
Google her name for more pictures of her and I understand that she is a pretty good reporter.Now that is what we call beauty with brain :-)
I never knew news watching could have been that much fun! I envy all you frenchmen.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Tuesday, June 20, 2006

Routine or no routine

Dear Mausam,
If you are in favour of a life with routine say Ayes or else Nays

I have heard people say so often that they are tired of doing the same stuff every day, waking up same time every morning, doing the same chores everyday, taking the same bus, going through the same route, getting off the job at the same time, following a similar pattern for the evenings for months and months. Such people always complain about and express their inability to get out of this rut.
And then there are others like me, who are dying to get into a similar daily pattern, (maybe that is coz i have never been in a job where there are set working hours) coming in at x A.M. everyday and leave at y P.M. every evening. But my current job looks like fulfilling this desire of mine. Waking at the same time every morning, which gives me the luxury of not changing my alarm clock, taking the same train every day( I always wated to be a daily passenger, seeing same faces everyday, and going about the daily proceedings day in and day out). It has been a fascination really, so now this little desire of mine is also taking itz shape. Another benefit for me is that now i will become far more disciplined.
itz been 10 years since the last time I had such set pattern(it was way back in 10th grade) otherwise all these years, i have failed to get into a routine.No wonder I have always liked the movies like "Groundhog Day", "Truman Show" and a relatively old/wonderful movie called "12:01", all these movies deal with the concept of day repeating itself (I will consider Truman Show also in this category).
So my days of lazying around, and walking my way to office at will are over, these americans dont even let you work after your official hours, even for free! Get into a routine now coz this is what you wanted boy :-)
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sunday, June 18, 2006

journey into the unknown

Dear Mausam,
Itz time for me to venture into the unknown. I am not sure what next few months have in store but the only thing that I require now is hardwork to achieve what I want, coz the other ingredients required for success, i.e. common sense and good luck, I have in abundance. Let me quote again the line from the Monk who sold his ferrari.
"Never get into the petty habit of measuring your self-worth against other people's net worth..... Every second you spend thinking about someone else's dreams you take time away from your own"
I know what is best for me and no one else. People have the right to make opinion and they advise/comment to the best of their knowledge, sometimes their advise/comment is based on a clear rationale and sometimes its just some arbitrary thought which comes to their mind, but the important thing is how you take it. So Ajj Kaim, think right, coz itz only you who has the control of your life!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, June 17, 2006

thoughts scribbled

Dear Mausam,
It has been more than a month since I have been in US, the job search finally looks like coming to an end. Everyday brings something new- new experiences, interesting interactions with strangers, something new to learn at every step. Just a mere task of walking into a new store is a learning experience. The images of movie "Crash" keep coming back to my mind everytime I walk in the street, ride a bus, journey thru a train. A stereotype exists in my mind for people from every race. Everytime I see people i recognise them as "Kaala", "Goraa","Mexikaa", "Chinka", "south indian" etc... and then I ask myself not to be judgmental of people the way I have always been. I remember the time in Delhi when Tinni used to ask me not to base my decisions about people by any pre-assumed notions. Nothing in this world is Black or white, everything is grey, just like I and you are.
Now that summers are here so people have started shedding clothes. But interestingly, yesterday I saw a girl from middle east dressed in black from head to toe and was wondering "she is also fighting the summer!, does'nt she has the urge to get into sleeveless just like other do?" We set our own limits, that girl was comfortable wrapping herself all over, the girls in india consider wearing sleeveless as a limit and girls here are fighting the summer by wearing shorts and minis.
Everytime I move in public domain I feel like I am a representative of my community and all actions of mine will make people judgmental about my community, so I always make an effort to be extra helpful, extra nice to people. (I wonder why I have this feeling of responsibilty when i know that there are millions of indians living outside india who have been representing india all around.)
The other day I was travelling in a train and I saw a desi guy and girl falling over each other, nobody reacted, coz it is considered a norm(It is not that everybody here share their passionate moment in public but itz just that people don't stare or react when they see somebody doing it)
I kept feeling uneasy about the whole situation,coz this is not acceptable from "where we come". Atleast people in india stop when they find someone around them and want to keep the private moment as private as possible and it certainly is not a moment to feel proud of like that desi guy felt. I made sure I stared at him as menacingly as possible coz that guy had a swagger about him and acted as if he has truly arrived in USA. I wish I could make him sit down and give him a lecture about morality!
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Monday, June 12, 2006

The beautiful game

Hey Mausam are you one of those following the world cup? This is the biggest sporting event for most of the people in the world and I am one of those. I had thought about watching this edition of world cup in detail but alas the job search has been bothering me way too much for me to concentrate on watching the proceedings in Germany.
Last year around september I had asked Mandy(he was/is in germany) to arrange for the world cup tickets and he told me then that the tickets are sold out already! Hey Mausam in case you are not a football buff you just have to watch a couple of world cup matches to become one.
The likes of Ronaldinho's, Shevchenko's weave magic. Every world cup throws up a bunch of unknows into super stardom. Who knew Stoitchkov or Romario before the 1994 world cup, Ronaldo and Zidane were household names by the time 1998 world cup ended and Ronaldinho was the hero of the last world cup just by kicking that amazing free-kick against England.
And my bets are that Robinho and Ricardinho will be the brazilian stars who will shine this time around. I sincerely hope Italy and Spain do much better than what they been doing, and Portugal as in every world cup remain the dark horse.
And for Sandeep's sake, I hope Argentina does well too, as he will be rooting for Argentina even in a Australia-Japan match. I can hear Sandeep shouting from phagwara "Go Argentina Go!"
Hey Mausam you know Guptz and Amit bought a new television set just to watch the world cup.I envy them so much.
I wish I get some job, real quick so that I too can watch some television, coz I am sure this world cup will be full of all the thrills and excitment that this beautiful game is associated with.

Visiting some world cup village and cheering the teams is one of my dreams, I hope to be part of it, 4 years from now.Amen
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Wednesday, June 07, 2006

Googled!

Dear Mausam,
Have you heard about the new product by google? itz google spreadsheets. Tinni bhai just sent me one of the sheets he created, itz something similar to microsoft excel(atleast thatz what the first impression of it is)
Google has completely changed the way we use the internet.I am amazed at the whole range of products offered by these guys.
google.com is the default search engine for all the people in the world to find out about anything and everything in this world and we use it everytime we sit on the computer.
gmail.com has all of a sudden become my default email account, and the convenience it offers is truly amazing.
orkut.com has been my latest addiction, though I was introduced to it last year but for me it has caught on just recently.
and blogger.com, how can I forget about this amazing product by google. I mean i have been blogging since forever now, and i am so much addicted to it!
google desktop is one more useful tool by google which allows me to search anything from my computer.
google earth helps me plan my every trip in this new city.
there are whole lot of other products too but the ones mentioned above are the products which I cant live without now.The best thing about google and their products is the convenience of using them.
The guys working at google are real geniuses or what? how do they think of such killer applications.
What will I do on the internet without google. Hats off to you Google Inc!

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Tuesday, June 06, 2006

Happy Birthday Amu

Dear Mausam,
I keep ranting about all the wonderful friends I have, they being my support system, they being my achievement in life and how they are so much part of me. But I would like to discuss about my cousins too. I will start off with Amu just coz itz her birthday today. Amu is celebrating her 2* birthday today far away on the other side of the globe in Australia. Amu'z been the sweetest nicest girl to have ever born on this planet.Amu I miss our get together's in bathinda. Those wonderful summer holidays when all of us used to get together and visit the rose garden. Those wonderful days when we used to chill out all day at home,playing one stupid game after another,i miss all that. I miss our wonderful meetings at Punjab Uni, it was such a pleasure meeting you ( I always got a chance to visit girls hostel coz of you, that was another advantage) and now that you are so far, I miss those times more than ever. I truly wish that you also move to US or atleast visit here soon.Thanks for being so nice Amu...
Pardeep baijee you are the ultimate disciplinarian. I have never seen/met/heard about someone who is that perfect in most things in life as you are. You guided me while I was in chandigarh. Introduced me to all the wonderful people and helped me in every way possible. You been a brother/ a guide to me and I am so happy that you are just few hours drive away -)
Tinni bhai you been my true inspiration. Your will to stand against the tide, your character in the time of adversity, your accomplishments are truly astonishing. I am still in awe of the way you used to approach each day at the time you were applying for the loan for education in INSEAD, there was so much uncertainity, there was so much doubt, there was so much insecurity but you still had that will to succeed and you managed to get out of that situation with flying colors. I am very confident that if you can handle the pressure you had then, you can handle anything in this world. Does anybody else knows me as well as you do?? You gave me confidence that whatever I am good at is truly exceptional and I should follow my hearts voice, always. I want to write a biography about you, coz I am sure it will be a best seller coz the experiences which you had are truly jaw-dropping.Can I ever thankyou for all that you have done for me.
Misha my lovely psychiatrist sisterr. Itz been so long since i met you.Our meetings at phagwara or vallejo have always been so much fun. You have always made me feel so much comfortable, playing the role of a perfect host.I am so much looking forward to spending more and more time with you at makku's wedding.
Makku Singh you are our Mr Cool of the family. You are the hunk, you are Mr sophisticated, you are like no one in our family. I am amazed how well you been able to blend both in US and india. Are you sure you wanna become a surgeon? coz you are a perfect mba material brother.But I still remember the first time you came to phagwara for admission in DMC. you looked such a kiddy :-) I am so much looking forward to your wedding, and i am so much charged up already to dance my heart out coz I am so happy for you and Sheena bhabi!
Rinni raani barri sayaani, Rinni I remember you everytime i hear the song Rubaroo. Ahh the time spent with you at One97 was amazing. Were we really working there? I thought we used to go there for fun! Lovely memories. And Rinni what should i write about you? You are exactly like me bt just a bit more emotional and bit more caring. Just if God had given the two of us a little more of gray matter things would have been so much easy!
Preet Singh you are a saint.You are the most logical, intelligent guy in the family and the way you see life is totally different from the rest of us lesser mortals. Preet I miss the kid in you, who used to play all the pranks not too long ago.
Veenu, you see, as always I am not left with any nice adjectives for you. Coz I used all those for everybody else! So I don't wanna say the same things again and again. Veenu you are my lovely cousin who cribs the most, and you are my lovely cousin whom i adore the most. Just be your natural self dear and you will achieve a lot in your life.
I have so many cousins in england and canada. And the hard part is that I hav'nt met some of them even once.aint it terrible. I need to get to know them, get in touch with them. My mom often discusses the time when in her childhood she used to stay with all her cousins and how much fun it used to be. Wish I also lived in similar times...
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Saturday, June 03, 2006

NY & bac

Dear Mausam,
In my hunt for a job I am not letting go any opportunity (Itz another matter that I am not really trying to find opportunities on my own!) The other day I got an interview call for a job of a manager in a Verizon wireless store. The person hiring me was a woman of indian decent and she wanted me to fly down to New York and promptly arranged for my to and fro air-tickets. I am not sure if I was more glad about getting an interview call or the idea of a probable employer sending me air-tickets just for an interview. But the truth was I did'nt wanted to disappoint myself and the probable employers by performing poorly at the interview, so my journey inflight was a brain-storming session in prepration of the interview. My interviewers were kind enough to send someone to pick me up from the airport and within half hour's drive I was outside the office, dressed up in a black suit, ready to face another interview in Yo-merica...
I will address my interviewer as Insh. Insh was a woman in her late 20s, charming and pregnant(oops! i didnt asked her or guessed it, she told me herself!) After exchanging pleasantries we sat down and she started with the usual first question, Tell me about yourself? As I was speaking, in walked a man in his 50s who Insh introduced as her father, the Big Daddy of the company. He called himself Mr Jajji and had a 5 foot 5 inch frame and weighed over 80 kgs(by conservative estimate). Mr Jajji had the typical Bhappa style turban and beard. His daughter handed him my resume and he settled in his chair while going through the summary of my life in that peice of paper.
Insh carried on asking me a few questions and started explaining my profile and just while we were in this interesting conversation, Mr Jajji couldnt resist anymore and jumped in by saying," Listen to me, I will explain you everything"
Mr Jajji was quite a fellow, He asked blunt, direct, to the point questions. Courtesy, basic manners, making others feel at ease were definitely not one of his virtues. Within 5 minutes of my conversation with Mr Jajji I made up my mind about not joining this company. You know how? This is how our conversation went...
Mr Jajji:- (Expression: authoritative) Do you have greencard?
Ajj Kaim:-(Expression: Confused) Yes
Mr Jajji:- Show it to me.
Ajj Kaim:- (Expression: Shocked and speechless)
Ajj Kaim:- (Expression: Sarcasm) I did'nt bring it along. I did'nt know I had to carry it for an interview!
Mr Jajji:- (Expression: Anger) You should have brought it along. It should be with you at all times
Ajj Kaim:- I think I have a photo copy of it. (Handing over the photo-copy.)
Mr Jajji:- (Expression:Authoritative) okay we will pay you 500$ per week and you will get 5$ per every new connection that you sell. Store opens next saturday and we have to train you also. Do you know computers?
Insh:- Papa he has computer engineering degree!(She was getting embarrased while I and her father were in this high level discussion)
Mr Jajji:- I know, I can see that, I am just asking.
(How did the genius in Mr Jajji figure out that maybe I am an illiterate engineer from PTU is still a mystery for me)
Ajj Kaim:- Yes Sir. I can very well use computers as per the requirement of my profile.
(Both father-daughter started discussing about where and when and how much training I require, they also chose this time to discuss about the spam mails they were getting these days and how one of their uncles has'nt returned their call and general family matters, all in my presence.)
Mr Jajji:- Do you have relatives living in New York with whom you can stay during the training period?
Ajj Kaim:- (Expression: a lingering expression of shock) Well, I don't have any immediate relatives that I can think of straight up. Maybe I have some but I am not really sure. (Actually they were figuring out if they had to also arrange for my accomodation, in the meantime they started discussing further about how they wanted to train me and other possibilities and I was waiting for them to atleast ask me if this deal was okay with me,if i was happy with the "pay-package" they were offering before they finalised the plans about my training!!!)
Mr Jajji:- Do you really have to go back today, can't you just stay today and for a few days we can train you and then you can go back on Tuesday and start working there!
Insh:- Papa he is not prepared, he didnt bring any clothes along.
Ajj Kaim: (Expression: Discomfort and shock writ on face) Sir I came just for the interview and I guess I need to go back and think about it before making a final decision. (Atlast I managed to put my point across)
Finally the meeting was over, after few more unprofessional goof-ups Mr Jajji decided to take me to one of their stores. While on our way there, he explained to me that his father moved to US in 1952 and is an ENT specialist(yes, he meant his father was a doctor from india who moved in 1952, cleared his USMLE and then did masters in ENT!!!Ain't it a little hard to believe, and if you meet Mr Jajji itz absolutely impossible to believe) and he himself is an IIT Bombay graduate in Mechanical engineering and was born and brought up in USA. Continuing his bunch of lies he talked about his genius son and his influensive clout in the area. He showed me one of his stores and on our way back offered me lunch which I refused, coz I wasnt comfortable in his company. But he stopped at a pizza place for a bite. His behaviour, his expressions, his accent, his manners were typical of a shrewd punjabi business man, who cared about no one except himself and who lived his life speaking a dozen lies per hour. If this guy was a US born,IIT graduate then I am a Harvard professor with a PhD in artificial intelligence! His accent was even worse than mine and he had to convert all his words from hindi to english before uttering them!
His associate dropped me at the airport at 4p.m. and due to rains the flight got delayed by 6 hours. To round off the day, I almost lost my cellphone and almost got stranded in Boston as I had boarded the wrong bus! It was quite a day.

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Thursday, June 01, 2006

me and my buddies





I chanced upon looking at two of these old pics so thought of uploading them.
Barista 35, a few months back.Me,Narry, Paras, Ubee, Sanju,Birdi and Vicky

It didn't take me long







Dear Mausam,

I am back at blogging. Well this shows how unsure I am about the decisions that I make. Maybe now I am way too addicted to it. While going through few of my previous blogs I realised that since I started blogging, I have been regular at typing nonsense here.

Anyways, Kenny has been here since last couple of days and itz been enjoyable spending time with him. It is a flashback to our days in Punjab Uni when we used to sit in the hostel room's balcony, lsitening to punjabi songs, drinking innumerable glasses of shikanjvi and also driving around chandigarh in Kenny's car and listening to Veer-Zara.

We been visiting a number of places in Boston but the tensions (tension of job for me and tension of classes & courses for Kenny) are always on the back of our mind.

With my bro done with the course, so he is taking things a little lightly now. But he has a way too keep himself busy even when he is free, unlike me. The job hunt aint all that stressful coz there have been a few initial opportunities, though nothing concrete as yet. I must say, something which I say very often,I am God's blessed child and He gives me things on a platter.(Itz another story that I find ways to walk away from all the wonderful things showered on me by almighty)

A lesson for all people who want to immigrate abroad--The only thing you will miss when you are staying abroad is the company of your nears and dears, if that is taken care of, then staying abroad is Heaven. With communications,travelling becoming so affordable and easy, things are not all that bad.
Minor problems will always be around and the truth is, no matter how comfortable your life is, you will never get rid of such minor hiccups. Itz a beautiful life, so just be happy :-)

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Sunday, May 28, 2006

I don't wanna blog anymore

Dear Mausam,
I am good. You know, I don't feel like blogging anymore. Maybe I m tired of it now. I will take a break of it.(Not sure how long this emotional state of mind will remain,but this is what i am thinking right now). So I don't know how long this hiatus will be, I hope not too long. Until we get in touch again. Bye.
Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Friday, May 26, 2006

PSV Jr. & PSV Sr.

Thursday, May 25, 2006

The pleasure of exploring

Dear Mausam,

Do you know what I like the best about a new city? The pleasure of exploring the roads and building the map of the city in the mind.
I experience this feeling whenever I move into a new city. It happened when I moved to chandigarh, it happened when i moved to delhi. The only difference is I had a vehicle in those cities but I travel by foot here.
I feel completely lost for a first few days in a new city,then I think,what the heck lets find out about the city my own way,Lets travel on this road,to see where it ends up to and it's such a joy when you land up on the next crossing and you co-relate it with your earlier visit. I can truly understand the Eureka feeling which Newton had when he saw the apple falling.There is a sense of accomplishment, a feeling of confidence.
My mind rolls back to my childhood days when I used to "find new routes" in phagwara with Hammy on bikes. We used to travel in the by-lanes of the city and at one point in time we knew every nook and corner of it.ohh good old days... Time to get on with the day!

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Tuesday, May 23, 2006

Recommendation:A punjabi song

Hey Mausam,
Kee haal aa?
After that manic Saturday when I ended up writing 5 blogs in a day things have gone back to normalcy. I guess my mood swings just like the Indian sensex:Rises for no reason and then crashes for no particular reason.
As the job search is on, I try to keep myself occupied with a number of things but as always, music is priority 1. Have you heard the song "Rabb Sade je" by Satwinder Bugga. this guy has a rustic, clear voice and I absolutely adore this particular song.Itz a slow punjabi number and is very melodious.If you understand the lyrics then nothing like it, even if you don't,nevermind coz the song is way too soothing.Click on this link and select the song "Rabb Sade je" and hum along....

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

Muddat baad zamaane ne,samjhaya e, haaye,Phul nu soongi da hai ...phul nu khaaeeda nahi..kade khaaeeda nai
Pyaar zindagi bakshda e,zindagi nu,Pyaar pooji da e..pyaar thukraaeeda nai...
pyaar pooji da e,pyaar thukraaeeda nai...

Hoya ki je assi ajj ho gaye begaane ni
Hoya ki je assi ajj ho gaye begaane ni
Ajj nahi taan kadeh saadi hundi c rakaaney ni
Vaffa saadi da tu mul kaudi v na paaya
Vaffa saadi da tu mul kaudi v na paaya,kideh sikkea da chal gaya zor dass jaa ni
Rabb de samaan saanu kehan valiye , rabb saadey jaye banaaye kinney hor dass ja
Rabb de samaan saanu kehan valiye , rabb saadey jaye banaaye kinney hor,kinney hor,kinney hor dass ja ni
......
Kar kar vaade aapey vaadeaan tu mukkri dass kehrri sazaa tainu laiyeh vairney,
Kar kar vaade aapey vaadeaan tu mukkri dass kehrri sazaa tainu laiyeh vairney,
Bhul gayi ae kiven dhang saanu v taan dasde,yaad kiven dil cho bhulaiyeh vairney
Assi taan majood kharrey aapne thaavaantey
Haaye,assi taan majood kharrey aapne thaavaante kehda paigayaa pyaar kamzor dasja ni
Rabb de samaan saanu kehan valiye , rabb saadey jaye banaaye kinney hor dass ja
Rabb de samaan saanu kehan valiye , rabb saadey jaye banaaye kinney hor,kinney hor,kinney hor dass ja ni
......
Ishq samundraan ch dobb saanu gayi ni aap gairaan sang laundi fireh taariyaan
Ishq samundraan ch dobb saanu gayi ni aap gairaan sang laundi fireh taariyaan
Phulaan jahe chaa baikey zakhmi kharakhey ni,tere jahe kandeaa naal laake yaariyaan
Dil de vehrreych saadey sog jeha paake
Dil de vehrreych saadey sog jeha paake,chankaavey kideh jhanjhraan de bor dass ja ni
Rabb de samaan saanu kehan valiye , rabb saadey jaye banaaye kinney hor dass ja
Rabb de samaan saanu kehan valiye , rabb saadey jaye banaaye kinney hor,kinney hor,kinney hor dass ja ni
......
Bhul gayi kiven baithh pipli dee chchaavey ni,umaraa nibhaaun de oh daavey karne
Bhul gayi kiven baithh pipli dee chchaavey ni,umaraa nibhaaun de oh daavey karne,
Teri haan mai teri jasveer nathey waleaa,naa likh mere unglaan de pothey bharne,
Pataah v na lagga jhatt badal gayi tu
Pataah v na lagga jhatt badal gayi tu, ajj-kal kideh hath teri dor dassja ni,
Rabb de samaan saanu kehan valiye , rabb saadey jaye banaaye kinney hor dass ja
Rabb de samaan saanu kehan valiye , rabb saadey jaye banaaye kinney hor,kinney hor,kinney hor dass ja ni...

Saturday, May 20, 2006

Manmohan Singhji don't lie anymore...

Dear Ajj Kaim,

Manmohan Singh tells to all striking doctors that they should have faith in government. So Mr Manmohan Singhji finally you woke up from your slumber or you just received the approved script fom Mrs. Gandhi that you decided to address the nation. Either way we don't trust you anymore.You are just a pawn playing with the sentiments of general public.
The humane face of yours has long evaporated. Screw you!
Don't make such misleading speeches anymore.
We are tired of you and your instructors providing false information to the rest of the world.Our heart cries when we see people suffering coz you guys don't stop playing petty politics.With your actions you are not reserving the seats in medical colleges for the "economically weak"but infact reserving the seats for yourself in elections. You are not uplifting the poor, but uplifting your chances of staying in power. You guys are taking every step to stop the progress of india. Why can't you spend your time in building schools, implement steps so that learned teachers are there to help students, clean the yamuna, fight corruption,Improve the law and order situation in the country and other millions of grievances that people have. But you won't do any of those coz you have not been directed to do that.
I wonder what advise your america-residing daughter gives you coz I hope she looks at things in a different prespective.
Stop pretending to be innocent Mr Prime Minister coz you are no different from the rest of your money-minded Arjun Singhs, Pranab Mukherjees, P. Chidambrams and that doctor health Minister Anubumani Ramadoss, who's father came all the way from south india to protest against the students camping in New delhi and "request" the govt to increase the reservation from 49 to 69%!!!
Somebody explain as to what is this going?

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

"Banauti Yaar"

Dear Mausam,

I am on a blogging overdose!
Now that I am at it. Just wanted to mention about a Kuldeep Manak song. Have you guys heard the song "Banaauti yaar" itz a really nice song which reminds me of Jaskamal Singh Brar a.k.a Rubal who was a dear friend of mine at some point in time until he ditched me at a time I wanted him the most.
I have been really lucky in matters of friendship, but he is one thorn which still hurts.
As Manak says in the song, "Goli maaro ehoje Banaauti yaar de"

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

quote-unquote

Dear Mausam,

I read the following in the book The Monk who sold his Ferrari,

Never get into the petty habit of measuring your self-worth against other people's net worth..... "Every second you spend thinking about someone else's dreams you take time away from your own"

interesting quote.isn't it?

Regards,
Ajj Kaim

whatz the definition of a loser?

Dear Mausam,

Dictionary.com came up with following explanations for the word loser.
1. One that fails to win: the losers of the game.
2. One who takes loss in a specified way: a graceful loser; a poor loser.
3. One that fails consistently, especially a person with bad luck or poor skills: “losers at home seeking wealth and glory in undeveloped countries” (Arthur M. Schlesinger, Jr.).
4. One that is bad in quality: That book is a real loser.

Was just wondering if "I" really define the word loser. okay lets see.
Definition 1 does'nt really suit me, I am not playing any game, regading the game of life well i hav'nt reached the finish line as yet so don't know.
Definition 2 this one also does'nt really reflects my situation. So i still don't qualify for being called a loser.
Definition 3 awww..bulls-eye. this definition fits me just fine. a definition defined keeping me in mind.
I fail consistently at most things expected of me. "especially a person with bad luck or poor skills". I consider myself as God's blessed child so I don't really have bad luck but I sure possess poor skills. I did computer engineering for heaven's sake but I am still inequipped of any computer technicalities. So now I truly believe I am officially a loser.
Terming myself a loser feels so better.phew!
I was wondering why none of the singers sing any sad songs for emotions other than heartbroken in love. people feel sad about all things in the world, I would love to hear a song about someone who fails to find a creditable job for himself and thinks of himself as a loser.
This IT job thing is truly not my cup of tea and I sure have wasted e